Captiness Posted May 28, 2007 Posted May 28, 2007 Hi there, just thought it would be nice to talk to some people about what's going on in my life. As some of you might know its difficult to talk to people, if anyone, about what is going on being the OW. Well here is what happened. There is an age gap between me and my mm of 17 years, i am almost 20 and he is 37. I knew when things started between me and the guy that he was married, and had been for 13 years, his wife was also six months pregnant, and i am not proud of the fact that this all started while she was carrying his child. There was an attraction between us long before his wife got pregnant, but nothing happened until she was six months gone, me and the mm had sex and i felt that it had only happened because he was not having sex with his wife. MM said he was feeling sexually frustrated. Anyway having sex with him continued and after 2 months he sent me a letter, in this letter he described how he had fallen in love with me and how he felt confused because he still loved his wife. I must admit that i too had feelings for him. When thier baby was born i was sure he would end things, and although i was not happy about that i was prepared for it. Things did not end, and 2 years down the line i still see him on a regular basis. The wife has suspected that mm is having an affair and claimed that if he was she would not let him see their son ever! I have met his wife and she is a nice women and as much as i want to be with my mm properly i dont want to destroy and marriage and possibly risk that mm wont see his son. MM tells me he isin love with me and i truly believe him i just wish that things were easier. He tells me he has not slept with wife since their son was concieved which is over two years now, do you think that is possible? Is there a difference between loving his wife and being in love with her? Do you think that the age gap is a problem is he was ever to leave his wife? I am just so confused about this whole thing and some outside opinions would be nice. Thanks
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