Author peace_pipe Posted May 30, 2007 Author Posted May 30, 2007 THIS is your WHOLE problem...you don't know the difference between a relationship and dating around. She has been totally honest with you, from the very beginning. You're not compatible because you both want different things. So why keep going on about it? There's nothing wrong with her, she's just different than you are, or at least at a different stage in her life. If you think she's such a ho, than why do you even bother being upset about it anyway? No, i do know the difference between relationships and dating around. Dating or not - It is not repectable to do what she is doing.... REGARDLESS. That is my point, that is why I am upset. And oh, the guy crashed in her bed with her because as she put it he was "taking care" of her. She just wants to be "friends" with him also.... GET the picture? That is why I am pissed..... And I didn't realize she was a ho at first cause she talked a good game!
champagne Posted May 30, 2007 Posted May 30, 2007 No, i do know the difference between relationships and dating around. Dating or not - It is not repectable to do what she is doing.... REGARDLESS. That is my point, that is why I am upset. And oh, the guy crashed in her bed with her because as she put it he was "taking care" of her. She just wants to be "friends" with him also.... GET the picture? That is why I am pissed..... And I didn't realize she was a ho at first cause she talked a good game! How is she being disrespectful when she has told you that she doesn't see you as her boyfriend and is not in a relationship with you? If you don't want her to call you or have contact with you, then tell her that straight up, but she has to live her life, it's not for you to judge.
jcster Posted May 30, 2007 Posted May 30, 2007 Dating or not - It is not repectable to do what she is doing.... REGARDLESS.That's your opinion, it may not be hers. That is my point, that is why I am upset.You're upset because she's using you for a booty call. Welcome to the club! Now, if you don't want to be a booty call anymore STOP SLEEPING WITH HER! And I didn't realize she was a ho at first cause she talked a good game!And she's a "ho" for what reason? That she doesn't want a relationship with you? That she wants to sleep with other people? You haven't been disrespected in any way shape or form. You are the one being a judgemental, disrespectful, obsessive jerk about her! How would YOU feel if SHE were on this message board, sharing all of YOUR sexual hijinks (which, by the way...do you have a camera or something in her house? Are you stalking this poor woman?) with the people here - and still sleeping with YOU?! You may want to consider therapy.
champagne Posted May 30, 2007 Posted May 30, 2007 Yes, peacepipe, I looked through your postings history and this girl told you a month ago that she didn't want a relationship....so why should you keep obsessing about what she does with her life and criticizing it? It's time for you to let it go, because she has said she doesn't want what you want. If her calling and stopping by as a casual friend bothers you, you have to cut off contact with her altogether and tell her you can't see or talk to her anymore.
Author peace_pipe Posted May 31, 2007 Author Posted May 31, 2007 That's your opinion, it may not be hers. You're upset because she's using you for a booty call. Welcome to the club! Now, if you don't want to be a booty call anymore STOP SLEEPING WITH HER! And she's a "ho" for what reason? That she doesn't want a relationship with you? That she wants to sleep with other people? You haven't been disrespected in any way shape or form. You are the one being a judgemental, disrespectful, obsessive jerk about her! How would YOU feel if SHE were on this message board, sharing all of YOUR sexual hijinks (which, by the way...do you have a camera or something in her house? Are you stalking this poor woman?) with the people here - and still sleeping with YOU?! You may want to consider therapy. Yes she is an attention whore and a ho. I would have to think twice before I took advice from anyone living in the San Francisco area. The fact of the matter is, girls say they do not want relationships all the time. She said one thing and did another. I will overlook your ignorance because it is base don specualtion. You were not here when things developed. You were not the one SHE persued, all the while supposedly "not wanting a relationship". You didn't have to see her be intimate with you one night and be out with some new guy the next. So just back off there. I call a girl who behaves like this an attention whore at the very least. Now that's cool if it works for her but I don't have to like it. I call a spade a spade and you can dance around her promiscious and selfish behavior all day by sugar coating it. It's not about obsessing, it's about finding out more about what happened so you can learn from it. I think if you would approach with an open mind instead of an attitude of criticism you may see my point.
Author peace_pipe Posted May 31, 2007 Author Posted May 31, 2007 How would YOU feel if SHE were on this message board, sharing all of YOUR sexual hijinks (which, by the way...do you have a camera or something in her house? Are you stalking this poor woman?) with the people here - and still sleeping with YOU?! Lol, if her so called sexual "hijinks" are something to be ashamed of, them why is she doing it? I never mentioned her name - what are you talking about anyway?? I get a laugh out of the therapy. And who is being being judgmental of whom? And I don't have a camera in her house. If maybe you would listen you would understand HOW I know these things. Did it ever come across your mind that there is a perfectly good explanation for this? Of course not. Perhaps you would care to ask?
Star Gazer Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 I would have to think twice before I took advice from anyone living in the San Francisco area. Hahahahahahaaaaa!!! You poor thing.
Author peace_pipe Posted May 31, 2007 Author Posted May 31, 2007 Hahahahahahaaaaa!!! You poor thing. Do you believe CALIFORNICATION is a good thing? I like Cali, but San Fran, come on, way too many extreme liberals there to expect an unbiased opinon.
Author peace_pipe Posted May 31, 2007 Author Posted May 31, 2007 Hahahahahahaaaaa!!! You poor thing. I forgot to ask, how is the FWB working out?
Star Gazer Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 I forgot to ask, how is the FWB working out? What's your point here, PP?
Star Gazer Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 I like Cali, but San Fran, come on, way too many extreme liberals there to expect an unbiased opinon. I'm not sure I follow you. What do SF's political beliefs (a VERY generalized comment, BTW) have anything to do with the very clear, totally UNBIASED FACT that this girl has told you from day one that she does not want a relationship with you? Period. End of story. Doesn't matter if you're conservative, liberal, or from Mars - that will remain the same.
Author peace_pipe Posted May 31, 2007 Author Posted May 31, 2007 I'm not sure I follow you. What do SF's political beliefs (a VERY generalized comment, BTW) have anything to do with the very clear, totally UNBIASED FACT that this girl has told you from day one that she does not want a relationship with you? Period. End of story. Doesn't matter if you're conservative, liberal, or from Mars - that will remain the same. Lol. She told the last guy that spent the night at her place the same thing. He was just being nice by helping her home drunk and sleeping in the same bed with her. How long did she know this guy? "all evening" she says..... ROFL!!! No, she does not want a relationship with anyone.... I feel bad for this guy because she did the same crap with me. That's what makes it wrong...... is all
champagne Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 Sorry, but I almost have to hand it to the girl. How many times have men lead women on? lots.
Star Gazer Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 Lol. She told the last guy that spent the night at her place the same thing. He was just being nice by helping her home drunk and sleeping in the same bed with her. How long did she know this guy? "all evening" she says..... ROFL!!! No, she does not want a relationship with anyone.... I feel bad for this guy because she did the same crap with me. That's what makes it wrong...... is all Again, what is your point? Are you trying to say that she DOES want a relationship? Are you trying to convince us that she's been lying to you? To this other dude? She's NOT. There's nothing "WRONG" with what she's doing. If you don't like what she's doing, stop seeing her. But please be clear here: you have NO RIGHT to be upset with her, because she laid her cards out on the table with you from the get-go. Her WORDS and ACTIONS match. She doesn't want a relationship with you. Take that to the bank, slick.
jcster Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 Yes she is an attention whore and a ho. I would have to think twice before I took advice from anyone living in the San Francisco area. Wow. That is the lamest "insult" I've heard in a long time. Just...lame - like your obsession, your moralizing, and your attempt to justify your outrage. Yeah, stay the hell away from SF - we don't want you here. Have a nice life (if you happen to get one).
Author peace_pipe Posted May 31, 2007 Author Posted May 31, 2007 Again, what is your point? Are you trying to say that she DOES want a relationship? Are you trying to convince us that she's been lying to you? To this other dude? She's NOT. There's nothing "WRONG" with what she's doing. If you don't like what she's doing, stop seeing her. But please be clear here: you have NO RIGHT to be upset with her, because she laid her cards out on the table with you from the get-go. Her WORDS and ACTIONS match. She doesn't want a relationship with you. Take that to the bank, slick. What she is doing is slutty and I did chose to stop seeing her. It is SLUTTY. Period. When's the last time you brought three men home that you knew "all night"?
Author peace_pipe Posted May 31, 2007 Author Posted May 31, 2007 Have a nice life (if you happen to get one). You want to internet fight?
Author peace_pipe Posted May 31, 2007 Author Posted May 31, 2007 Wow. That is the lamest "insult" I've heard in a long time. Just...lame - like your obsession, your moralizing, and your attempt to justify your outrage. Yeah, stay the hell away from SF - we don't want you here. Have a nice life (if you happen to get one). Only a fellow ho would justify such behavior. Make daddy proud!
Trimmer Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 Wow, peace_pipe - nice with the San Fran comment there. Way to keep the discussion elevated... The fact of the matter is, girls say they do not want relationships all the time. She said one thing and did another. Seems to me she has acted consistently with what she said. What was inconsistent was what you assumed ("girls say they do not want relationships all the time.") Dude - you fell in with a girl just about, what, a year out of high school? Probably her first time out on her own, ready to party? I have to ask: just exactly WTF did you expect? It's not about obsessing, it's about finding out more about what happened so you can learn from it. I think if you would approach with an open mind instead of an attitude of criticism you may see my point. Not a bad point. So since as soon as we disagree with you, you object to it as speculation, why don't you share with us: what have you learned? We already know what you think about her, but really that doesn't matter does it? If she's a "ho", then you are probably not going to keep her in your life (hmmm, unless you are getting obsessive about her?) so we don't need to know what you think of her - I don't really care anyway. What I want to know is: if you, peace_pipe, approach the situation with that open mind you tout, have you learned anything about yourself?
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