Homer3dx Posted May 28, 2007 Posted May 28, 2007 I'm a senior in High school and I'm graduating in a week. I've been dating an amazing girl for three years, named Stephanie. She's an amazing girl with an amazing personality. I'm lucky to have her and I'd never think of cheating on her. Well let me tell you first that i get along with everyone and i have a few female friends too. i would never choose them over Stephanie when it comes to hanging out, talking or anything. Just the other day we were passing out yearbooks so i got all my friends to sign it and I let Stephanie read what they wrote. She was only interested in what the girls had to say. She took notice to what a friend of mine named Brooke wrote that said I am one in a million and and she's going to miss me and to stay in touch, & she also gave me a wallet sized picture to put in my wallet, inwhich she gave to all of her friends. Brooke is a very nice girl whom i've gotten to know over the past years in High School. I enjoy hanging out with her in class, strictly as a friend. Well Stephanie did not buy this at all. She thinks i like her & that we flirt in class. Maybe b/c a year earlyer I told Stephanie that I liked Brooke's red hair. It's really really red, it's cool. The picture was the final straw. She broke up with me saying that she's let guys run all over her in the past & it's not going to happen again. Well guys in her past really did run all over her but i don't feel like i am. im very heartbroken to hear that she compared me to them b/c I really love her & i want her to be happy. Brooke isn't a big deal to me at all. She's just a friend. What do I do to win Stephanie's trust. Can i keep Brooke as a friend and not lose Stephanie? Should I just have guy friends for now on? What do i do?
fallendisguise Posted May 28, 2007 Posted May 28, 2007 Talk to her about and explain how you feel and that you've been with her for three years and never not once have ever thought about being with anyone else and still don't. I think that maybe if she isn't graduating as well and is still going to be stuck in high school she may be insecure about how that is going to affect your relationship and is using that as a means to lash out or it could also be true if she is graduating and you're both going to go to different colleges. Graduating is a huge life change and she could be insecure about what is going to happen to the two of you and letting that affect the relationship now. Now if this is something that has happened over the last few years on a regular basis than it's something completely different.
Author Homer3dx Posted May 29, 2007 Author Posted May 29, 2007 As a matter of fact I am graduating when she's not and I'll be an hour in half away, I'll sit down and talk with her today about it. Thanx
StartingOver07 Posted May 29, 2007 Posted May 29, 2007 She could be feeling nervous about your graduation but if you've been dating her for 3 years and haven't done anything to make her lose trust in you, then I think she should give you the benefit of the doubt at this point. Good luck.
Author Homer3dx Posted May 31, 2007 Author Posted May 31, 2007 Thank you both for replying. I'm actually the first boyfriend she's had that has'nt cheated on her so I can see why she's the way she is. I just wish she trused me more.
jcster Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 I agree with everyone else - talk to her! It's too bad that she has baggage already and she's not even out of high school. You might be the one who can prove to her that all guys aren't cheating jerks. Good luck!
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