mehim Posted May 27, 2007 Posted May 27, 2007 I don't know what to do, I know that she had been cheating its been about a year now, since the first time I found out. At first I was crying and crying, then I tell myself to forget that it's going on. Then I would see her text msgs every once and a while, when I can get hold of her phone, which she has with her allll the time... Here is what I need help with, I don't know if I should confront her, or just go ahead and tell my dad. Which I know that he will divorce her if he found out. If I do tell my dad, she will hate me for ever, well I'm starting to hate her right now, I have so much resntment toward her. It's affecting my life, every other aspect of my life is going good, except this. I'm very close to my dad, and love him, and don't know if I want to hurt him by telling him. Also what I really would love to find out first, before telling anyone of them, is to find out who that a****le is. Please advice me, tell me what you did if you went through this, or what you would do. I would be greatful.
BlueEyedSarah Posted May 27, 2007 Posted May 27, 2007 Your parents must be having some kind of communication problems for her to be cheating? Why would your dad hate you for telling him? Its been going on for a year now, he would be greatful that you tell him. I think you should confront your mum about what you saw on her phone, though she might be mad at you for snooping on her phone. If she is mad at you about it and still cheating then I think you should tell your dad what you saw. After that it will be up to your mum and dad to sort out their issues.
norajane Posted May 27, 2007 Posted May 27, 2007 I would just go ahead and tell your dad. It's not your responsibility to sort out their problems for them, or to hunt down the Other Man. Your dad will be hurt to know the truth, but your mom is already hurting him by having an affair behind his back. Your dad deserves to make an informed decision about his marriage. Just let him know what you've found and let him confront your mother. If she ends up hating you because you told, well, that sounds like a poor mother to begin with. She should end up hating herself for allowing you to bear this burden. Good luck to you.
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