gleason Posted May 26, 2007 Posted May 26, 2007 i was in a LTR for more than 10 yrs, the last few LD. It was intended that i move to be with him and marry soon. i was preoccupied with caring for an ill parent, with many responsibilities, etc. we would visit 2-3 months. i received a shocking (to say the least) break-up e-,ail, very brief and superficial, stating he is "just not there anymore". and quickly signed off with a brief i'll talk with you about it later. well, never did i hear any reply after many attempts from me for 5wks. finally, i was able to talk via phone (my call) very brief, stating very matter of factly that he now has a fiancee and getting married. he stated the've been dating a couple months and soon to be married!!! wow! how does one move on so very quickly, and just move on from such a long relationship without so much as a conversation. very abrupt, with nonsense, superficial reasons to justify. not even the respect of talking this out, apologizing, etc. and i never heard from him again. so, is it possible to meet and want to be married to someone so very quickly????????? is it quickly jumping into something else? it alsmost appears to me to be rushed to get married, why the hurry, if you were meant to be?? i believe he just wants to be married! (no pregnacy involved) what goes on in the heads of someone like that? is there still thoughts of the relationship, person they crudely left behind? can someone honestly turn toward someone that quickly? and i have to wonder, what is up with her? i would not be so ready to become married to someone so freshly out of a LTR. i did sense some angry undertones from him, however, our talk was brief. it has been a couple months now since last contact. he has ignored my contacts previously. it seemed to me that he spoke with a bost in his voice over the marriage. no words of apology, no admission of any wrong doing on his part or responsibility for his disloyalty. thoughts??????? having difficulty coping with this.
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