alermy Posted May 25, 2007 Posted May 25, 2007 I knew this guy for a while now. I know he is dating someone but I don't know how serious they are. We've been emailing each other through the day almost everyday and lately, we've been talked on IM for hours during weekend or nights. so I decided to make a move. I asked him to join me for movie and coffee. He said yes and picked out a movie, which is this weekend. After a couple of days, he went back and forth about going to the movie or not. Today he told me he is going home for the long weekend and he said he is confusing because I am playing too much for his taste these days. I would think this is very obvious that I like him so I asked him out. so I told him that I think it will be nice to watch a movie with him and talk about it when we have coffee. He said oh I see, well we'll work something out then. Does he want to go with me or just doesn't want to hurt my feeling? I really want a straight answer out of him. Thanks for any suggestions.
Art_Critic Posted May 25, 2007 Posted May 25, 2007 I really want a straight answer out of him. Then leave no room for error and ask him a straight question that he has to give you the straight answer. Don't dodge around it and come right out and ask him what is going on with him and why if he has a GF is he going to the movies with you.. By the way.. I think he is playing you for sex..
MissKissNada_Gal Posted May 25, 2007 Posted May 25, 2007 Then leave no room for error and ask him a straight question that he has to give you the straight answer. Don't dodge around it and come right out and ask him what is going on with him and why if he has a GF is he going to the movies with you.. By the way.. I think he is playing you for sex.. if hes already dating someone he shouldnt be talking to u more than a mutual friend anyway. infact, that may be ur answer. maybe hes worried about that which he should. i know if i was on the other end of this (the girl hes dating end) idk, this is like cheating on me doesnt have feelings for me need to break up with him immediatley kinda situation. leave him alone for her... theres soo many AVAILABLE men. u no? just saying. but if he makes a move and seems interedted i guess go for it. but wut about the girl whos guy shes supposed to be dating is out with another woman (YOU), wen it should only and has been her.?..
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