Freedom Now Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 Have you ever been involved with someone who runs hot and cold? My ex (if you can call him that....I don't even know that I was in a real relationship at all....) after having me call him on the carpet regarding his inattentiveness to me after three months of hot and heavy behavior.... disappeared. He won't speak to me. Won't return my calls, emails, or text messages. Now, I have only sent a few in this past week since he disappeared, but why won't he give me closure? He just fell off the face of the earth.... We had a fight. Nothing more, or so I thought... Now, last night, he sent me an email (I think by mistake) which contained funny pictures. He sent this to his friends and me. WTF happened? I feel cut open. Anyone else go through this?
Author Freedom Now Posted May 24, 2007 Author Posted May 24, 2007 Addendum.... I just got an email from him.... He wants to talk after he returns from his vacation...
Star Gazer Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 Dude, I wonder if the lunar cycle is making all these dudes go nutty recently. Venus is visible - maybe they're just overwhelmed by all of our feminine energy?? WTF - it's happening to every girl I know! They're all literally VANISHING after being soooooooooo hot on us! GRR.
Author Freedom Now Posted May 24, 2007 Author Posted May 24, 2007 I don't get it either! No man has ever done this to me before and I don't get it. Commitmentphobics? God I hope not. That is a nightmare that you can't ever wake up from.... It is enough to drive a sane woman nuts....and I am really level headed and controlled. Geez.... I hate to say this, but I am at least glad that I'm not alone.... Dare I say that they just aren't that into us?
NorCalDave Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 Women pull the same stuff. Trust me. My ex went from wanting to have my baby in October '06 to realizing she couldn't get pregnant, to leaving me in January '07, to wanting to be weekend friends in March, to wanting to go to church together and workout in April, to now when she avoids me at all costs. Commitmentphobe? Yes. There are plenty of women out there like this. Not just men. These kinds of people are unpredictable and painful to love. I would straight up MOVE ON. There's nice good looking guys out there...like me:D
Author Freedom Now Posted May 24, 2007 Author Posted May 24, 2007 You speak the truth NorCal....commitmentphobia knows no gender. Believe it or not, I have been told that I am incredibly commitmentphobic at times....but I don't believe it. I just haven't met the right one yet.... It's good to know that there are nice good looking guys out there for us nice good looking gals....
NorCalDave Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 You speak the truth NorCal....commitmentphobia knows no gender. Believe it or not, I have been told that I am incredibly commitmentphobic at times....but I don't believe it. I just haven't met the right one yet.... It's good to know that there are nice good looking guys out there for us nice good looking gals.... Yeah there are sweet, sensitive, tall, dark, handsome, well hung guys who have $$ and want to spend it on you and want the best for you. And they aren't afraid of committing. They want to start families and meet your family and go to work everyday to take care of you as best they can. They work out, have active hobbies, play guitar, like to rock out, try new things and live life. They're out there, and they will come to you in time. I promise. But....you could be a commitmentphobe a little, you never know....
Author Freedom Now Posted May 24, 2007 Author Posted May 24, 2007 And on the same token, there are spirited, petite, beautiful, successful gals who have their own $$ yet want someone who will romance the socks off of them. They, too, aren't afraid of committing. They want you to meet their family and want someone to compliment their life, not take from it. They bellydance, have super friends, super jobs, play the piano, love to karaoke, love to take chances, try new things, have a thirst for adventure, and love to live life large. We are out there for you and will come to you, too. But, I am not really commitmentphobic....just picky. And I never, never settle.
NorCalDave Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 And on the same token, there are spirited, petite, beautiful, successful gals who have their own $$ yet want someone who will romance the socks off of them. They, too, aren't afraid of committing. They want you to meet their family and want someone to compliment their life, not take from it. They bellydance, have super friends, super jobs, play the piano, love to karaoke, love to take chances, try new things, have a thirst for adventure, and love to live life large. We are out there for you and will come to you, too. But, I am not really commitmentphobic....just picky. And I never, never settle. That's good to know that they're out there. I guess I was settling for my ex. At the time I thought I had a great catch simply because to me, she's a 10 physically...but there's more to a relationship and to a person than looks. They can be very deceiving. I fell for the trap and the trap broke my heart twice. Now I am trying to meet a 10 who is healthy inside too. I know they have to be out there and I bet they're not all taken.
Author Freedom Now Posted May 25, 2007 Author Posted May 25, 2007 Never, ever settle. The whole package person is out there. She is just hard to find, but not impossible. When you least expect it, it will happen. I promise.
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