DifficultEndings Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 I spent the day with this guy who has been staring at me and flirting for about a year now. I finally got the nerve to send him a note and he smiled and read it over and over again when he got it. So we hung out and it was interesting. He didn't put his best foot forward like some people do, he was just himself. He took me to his apartment which was a mess. We watched a video, went out to see a movie, picked up some food and took it back to his place while we watched another movie. We talked about what we expected from relationships (he said he was looking for a deeper connection than just sex) and we even talked about his ex-girlfriends and his family on the way back to my house. I thought it was decent. A couple of days later he said that he just wanted to be friends. We've since interacted in some way once every two days either by internet or phone. This man is five years older than me (I am in my late twenties) and two years out of his last relationship. We both have children from previous relationships. Having said all of that, I'm an impulsive person but I am pumpin' my brakes on this one because I just don't think that he's into me. Guys would you tell a girl that you were interested in ALOT about you from the door? Or would you tell someone you wanted to be friends with that much info? I paid attention and I remember all of the things that he said about what he likes, doesn't like, and the kind of person that he is. What do you think?
Diamonds&Rust Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 I think he has absolutely no reason to be dishonest with you about not being romantically interested in you. Sounds like a good friend.
MissKissNada_Gal Posted May 25, 2007 Posted May 25, 2007 I think he has absolutely no reason to be dishonest with you about not being romantically interested in you. Sounds like a good friend. yeah he sounds like a good friend. and he means it wen he says he just wants to be friends. he feels comfortable enough with u to openly share his past and feelings, almost to a fault. i think he sees u as some1 he can be great friends with and can share great time with. but no, hes just ur friend, he wants to keep u though
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