FreeSpirit07 Posted May 24, 2007 Posted May 24, 2007 Hi everyone. This is my first relationship I’ve ever had, and I have sort of a problem. So here's my dilema.. I'm a sophomore in high school. I've been dating this really nice senior girl since the end of February. Things had been going really well...we both enjoy watching movies together, playing video games, etc. We've been having a really good time. No "sex", just passionately making out and making the motions as if we were actually having sex, but with our clothes on. Anyway, just recently she's been acting really strange. She doesn't really talk to me all that much anymore. I’ve asked her many times if it’s something I did, and she denies it. Since she’s valedictorian of her class, she has a ton of things to do like write a speech and college stuff. I'm kind of thinking the main part of this is the stress that's put on her. Yet, somehow, she has time to spend with her other friends, including other guys that I think hit on her. I’ve tried many times if she wants to hang out with me, and she says that she’s too busy. Anyway, she just recently sent me a letter that said that “We should part for now. It’s not fair to you that I can’t give you time and attention”. I’m kind of thinking and hoping that maybe she would want to get back together eventually, but I’m kind of afraid to. I would really have no idea if she's hooked up with some other guy. We used to love each other, and I still do love her. Yet, somehow, I’m kind of thinking and possibly afraid that she doesn’t love me anymore. Am I overreacting? Should I give it time? Or should I give up and move on? Thanks for any help and advice.
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