SadBabyGirl Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 I have a question. When somebody is giving you the silent treatment (when they claim they are upset and need to think) is this a form of NC? Even though they see you're online and you see them, and you KNOW they are there but they do not message you at all? He hasn't told me he wants to break up or that we're over nor have I, this silence is really uncomfortable for me and its almost been a week. I even told him is this really necessary for us? It feels like a game, like I am being punished.
Art_Critic Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 Start by blocking and deleting him.. thereby transferring the power to you... Then sit back ... he will curse himself for starting those kind of IM childish games.. Remember.. Block and Delete him.. then sit back and wait it out... and yes it is a form of NC.. but they are using it also to punish you.. take the power away from them...
BlueEyedSarah Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 I agree with Art_Critic. You should block and delete him then leave it up to him.
progressioncity Posted May 25, 2007 Posted May 25, 2007 It's a game. Block and delete, but don't wait.
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