soulseeker Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 Some of you may know my story, here it is in short: Met this guy about a month before he left just for the summer. We hit it off instantly, good communication, passion, friendship, etc. We spent a lot of time together and he is the kind of person I am looking for, BUT... He left a week ago and I am having severe doubts. Like maybe there wasnt enough between us yet to try and do long distance. How can I back this up and say something like, "I think we should just be friends over the summer and see where we are when you get back." I dont want him to get the impression that I dont want to be with him, I do, but like I said, maybe there wasnt enough there yet, to last a whole summer apart. I dont want to hurt his feelings. I am very interested in seeing where this whole thing can go. My overall goal is to give us the best chance at a relationship when he gets back in town, but I cant think of a way to sincerely get this across. Maybe I am just freaking out as a defense mechanism. Am I kidding myself in thinking 1) that this can actually work, or 2) that it is possible to take it down a notch without destroying it completely, or 3) both. Advice?
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