ash519 Posted May 22, 2007 Posted May 22, 2007 To those of you who read my "adult POV" thread, we pretty much broke up last night. So, I called him on my lunch break and he was sitting around doing nothing, not packing his stuff. So I layed it out for him...he either starts working on himself and this anger he feels towards me (Due to past insecurities and trust issues)...and REALLY work on it...or i am sorry, I love him too much for him to stay and I need him to pack his stuff. I didnt cry...I didnt yell, I was just honest and I feel really good about what I said because I meant it. I told him that sometimes couples annoy eachother and need to step back...it is not ok to lose it, leave and talk later saying hurtful things being ready to end it. Also, when 2 people live together they compromise. I clean and pick up EVERYDAY!!! And it is fine, but for him to have an "dont care" attitude and be a jerk when I ask him to do something little that is his responsibilty...not ok either!!! It doesnt matter to me whether or not he cares if his clothing all over the place, I care. And I am not anal or anything. I work 2 jobs, one full time, one part and every day come home and clean up and do what needs to be done...I dont care if he cares, I care. I like when the apartment is neat. Live with it, or like I told him, Dont! I will be devastated if he goes! But, I stand by what I have told him, I explained it as thoroughly as possible and I wont budge on it. He always wants me to compromise on his stuff, now it is his turn. Sound good?
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