Guest Posted May 21, 2007 Posted May 21, 2007 My BF and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We were inseparable. When we weren't working, we would do everything together. I would always say to him I don't mind staying behind ang giving him space, but he would always persist on me coming along. Recently he had to go away for work for 5 months. We are half way through it. We talk on the phone every night and I have visit him twice. About 2 weeks ago I got our phone bill and there was a weird number on it. At first it was only gor about 10 to 15 minutes at a time. Then it got to about 60 minutes to 70 minutes a night. I confronted him about it. He said that it was nothing and that I shouldn't worry about it. After that I was constantly online monitoring his phone use. He had betrayed my trust so I felt like I had to do it to protect myself. For about a week and half there was no calls. In the last fews days, it has started again. When I confronted him again, He got angry at me. He told me why I can't just believe him. I don't want to tell him who he can and can't talk too. But I also don't like that it makes me so uncomfortable. Its not normal for a guy in a long term relationship to do these things. I want to tell him that he needs to let me know or I'll walk. I don't understand why he can't just tell and let me go. I know part of it is that he still loves. but I cannot continue to stay in this until he chooses between me or her. HELP!!!!!!
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