Bree Posted May 21, 2007 Posted May 21, 2007 Well, my fiance of barely a year has told me that we are not friends. We love each other, but when we met we went into a relationship without establishing a friendship. We have been living together since march and the past two months have been hell. We get into it over anything and everything and he says some really mean things and i have told him i hate him (which i don't say anymore cause i know how bad it hurts him). So anyway i'm stuck at the house because i have no money to move out plus i really want us to be able to work this out, but he just shuts down and shuts me out. I'm just at a loss as far as what to do!
Takerslove Posted May 21, 2007 Posted May 21, 2007 Okay so your stuck in the house with a man that you are suppose to marry but at the time right now your parade looks a little weak. Try to talk to him an become his friend, or see if you two can work out the difference, but sometimes two people going there own way is the best thing for a relationship even when you call it hell.
jcster Posted May 21, 2007 Posted May 21, 2007 It sounds like you shouldn't be living together right now. If you want the relationship to work, you are going to have to live in separate places until you resolve your issues. I hope you haven't set a wedding date yet, because it sounds like neither one of you is ready yet.
Author Bree Posted May 22, 2007 Author Posted May 22, 2007 Update: Well it's true when they say kill with kindness. I came home yesterday cooked a full course meal and when he got home niether one of us said a word (which is the first time ever) anyway he got in the shower and i fixed his plate and put it on the bed and a cig. went outside and just had me time. Apparently space is what we need at times which we havent had a lot of, so anyways we talked it out and we will see how it goes now. thanks to everyone that posted, but we're not ready to throw in the towel quite yet.
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