is it time to say goodbye.

[princessb]

Me and my ex been together for 9 months and everything was going grate. I really fell in love with him and every time I would say I love you he would say it back but not all the time sometimes he would say I like you he kept on changing it. Then once I felt like he lost interest in me so I asked him I said are u bored of me? And he said why u asking I said I don’t know and he goes yeah maybe little bit but that doesn’t mean anything and that moment I felt like I was dying inside it hurt me a lot because I ain’t never felt that way about him. Then I asked if he still wanted to be with me and he goes common don’t ask me those silly questions and (all this was through msn) and I said be honest with me and he goes he don’t want to say things like that over the messenger. So I said fine I’ll call you and we talk through it and he said he wants to do it face to face so I just called him and he goes he don’t want to be with me coz he felt bored of our relationship. That really hurt me a lot and it felt like someone just ripped my heart apart and I couldn’t breathe anymore. I then wrote him an e mail saying that I needed him in my life and I didn’t want to break up coz of boredom and I said I didn’t want him to give up on me. He said he will think about it and he would tell me on Friday when we see. Finally it was Friday I went to meet him up and he said he still wanted to be with me we got back together. After getting together it felt like I couldn’t tell him my feelings anymore I couldn’t tell him that I loved him anymore because I wasn’t sure how he felt about me then comes march the 5th .

 

I heard some rumours going on his little sister being saying to my sister that he don’t really like me and he is just using me and all sort of things (his sister don’t like me). So I got a bit upset when I found out about this not that I believed her but I had doubts. So I asked him if it was true and he gave me all these explanations and he told me it wasn’t true and why would he say such a thing. I said fine I believe you and he goes you know what I don’t want to be with you so he broke up with me again and it hurt me the same way as it did before. He said we could stay friends so I just agreed I thought maybe staying friends I could get him back again but unfortunately it did not work that way we stayed friends for 2 months and suddenly I couldn’t take it anymore as I had all these feelings for him. I text him and said that I couldn’t stay friends with him and we should forget about the whole friendship thing because it was not working for me he tried to call after the text but I ignored it. I text him back I said I cant stay friends coz of how I feel about him and he said how about we wont talk till your feeling are gone ?

 

I’m so stupid that I said fine will not talk for a while and when I feel good about things I’ll get back being friends again. We haven’t spoke to each other for 2 weeks now and I feel like I’m doing so much better then. My best friend told me that he was talking to her its kind off weird coz he never talks to my friends does this mean he was trying to get information about me? Another thing I want to ask do u think this guy had any feelings for me loved me or treated me any good. How about a second chance with us or should I just move on? I really love him.

[oppath]

Move on. Never make someone a priority who only makes you their option. He's dumped you twice. You want someone who WANTS to be with you fully. Once someone has dumped you, trust is broken.

 

Also, I'm guessing you are young, still in high school? Maybe early college? This is just my sense and I may be wrong. If I'm right, you have a long life ahead of you. You'll probably be heartbroken again, and you'll probably break guys hearts. Those experiences will help you grow. Now is the time to learn how to grieve and get over a breakup. You'll be better off later in life for having learned at a younger age how to let go and move on.