GregsBad Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 I believe I'll make this my last comment on this particular subject, ... ..... (blah blah blah) ... Ok. I'm done. Thank God!
NoIDidn't Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 Do you really think the OW wants the kids? I wouldn't have thought so. Hi doiask42much. Sometimes I think the OW may want the kids to like her more than their mom, MM's W. Not so much that they want the kids. Because my H's OW was a co-worker/friend first, she asked about our kids alot. He knows not to talk about our kids too much now, as I am VERY protective of them. I had similar experiences with men like you mentioned in your previous post. I was the "less classy" choice. So I had to become more reserved. I still have a fiery personality (my H was so worried that I was going to harm his co-worker, even if just verbally thrash her) but age and maturity have helped me temper it considerably.
mopar crazy Posted June 17, 2007 Posted June 17, 2007 Thank God! What's your problem Greg? You and Shelly having a little tiff? I for one agree w/ everything Shelly is saying. I don't blame her for not posting on this topic anywhere, it's not getting her anywhere and she is beating her head against a brick wall so why bother. And Melissa, I agree 110% w/ what you said!
PoshPrincess Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 This whole thread is so freakin' stupid. What the hell difference does it make who's better looking. You are just trying to find something, anything, that gives you the upper hand ... otherwise, why would you even ask the question? The fact remains that if you're sleeping with someone who is MARRIED, they are not yours ... it doesn't matter if you look like Jessica Alba or Roseanne Barr. And, if the MM/MW married someone who looks like Roseanne Barr/or the ugly country western singer Julia Roberts married, for the life of me, I can't think of his name or Jennifer Aniston/Brad Pitt, that is the choice they made! I get such a kick out of the OW talking about how the W's "let themselves go." Whatever. Unless your MM is in his 20's and works out nonstop, I defy you to show me one that looks exactly like he did when he got married. The only difference is, at least the majority of the W's have childbirth to blame it on. I mean, really people. C'mon. Sad and Confused was just posing a question out of curiosity. I'm sure this wasn't started to bash any BSs. It's just a general debate and in the main, q interesting to hear peoples answers whether relevant or not. I reiterate my opinion in that most EAs are about more than looks and, in any case, if a man cheats on his W purely for physical gratification, because the OW is simply 'better looking' (in his eyes) then he really isn't worth a sh*t, is he? Anyway, as they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Who's to say whether one person is better looking than another? Surely that's just a matter of personal taste?
Melissa277 Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 Lyle Lovett is that ugly country singer Julia Roberts married. Thank you!
Babybird Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 This whole thread is so freakin' stupid. What the hell difference does it make who's better looking. You are just trying to find something, anything, that gives you the upper hand ... otherwise, why would you even ask the question? The fact remains that if you're sleeping with someone who is MARRIED, they are not yours ... it doesn't matter if you look like Jessica Alba or Roseanne Barr. And, if the MM/MW married someone who looks like Roseanne Barr/or the ugly country western singer Julia Roberts married, for the life of me, I can't think of his name or Jennifer Aniston/Brad Pitt, that is the choice they made! I get such a kick out of the OW talking about how the W's "let themselves go." Whatever. Unless your MM is in his 20's and works out nonstop, I defy you to show me one that looks exactly like he did when he got married. The only difference is, at least the majority of the W's have childbirth to blame it on. I mean, really people. C'mon. Maybe this post is a way to find out if the MM really does to the typical younger, prettier, OW. It seems from reading numerous responses that this isn't the case. Men and women both let themselves go during m. No question there. They get comfortable and in a good, loving and trusting R then they don't really have to worry about impressing anyone anyway right? I know I let myself go and my exH never gained a pound. But now its different. He got fat and I lost weight. I'm pretty fond of the divorce diet.
Tomcat33 Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 It is most definitely not always the case that WS find someone younger and more attractive, though in some cases that is the sole reaon why they want to stray, to experience someone more attractive. Regarding the comment of letting onself go in the marriage I'm not sure why we tend to take that kind of attitude. I don't think it's superficial of a spouse to want to feel physically attractive to their mate after time, the physical need is just as real a need as understanding, conversation or respect. At least that is how I see it. At work I have a coworker who sits behind me and she always seems to make the worst choices for lunch, she is a bit over her weight though not considered grossly overwheight she is definitely quite a few pounds over and dresses poorly. She seems to justify her bad choices in food by making the following statement, "oh well it's not like I need to try anymore I already got him to marry me" Every time she makes that statement is just irks me, last time she said that I couldn't resist responding "really? I think this is when you should be trying the hardest" I honestly believe that the more time you are with someone the more you should try to look your best. The reality is that there is a LOT of competition out there so why rest on one's laurels thinking that our mate couldn't possibly find another woman so much more attractive he might just get tempted to do the wrong thing. I'm not saying live a life of fear, but keeping up is not an unhealthy thing. I wonder just how many people throw in the towel thinking their mates will always be there no matter what? Again, this is only one aspect of making sure your partner's needs are met, of course this on its own is futile if we are disregarding other important needs.
LittleLady Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 First off, it's not my fault that pimply little weasel of a man deserved his nuts chopped off. Men are good for nothing. All they know how to do is control and abuse so they all deserve to be used and thrown out like an old fuse. As for the wife: No, she does not know about the affair. I managed to catch a glimpse of her last friday when she showed up for a little banquet hall get-together after work. Well, her hair seems to be falling out as well. No other reason to explain what resembled a dead cat on her head. She must be going wiggy these days. The wife is a beat up old bag who carts around a lot more than tin cans. She's got major psychological issues stemming from her homely looks and putrid degenerate genes. And after he dumped her off home for bed, he came back and picked me up at our special place and we had some much needed raunchy sex in his garage. This woman thinks she is better than everyone else; a snooty old crone who gives off menacing looks. She's not actually that older than me but sure looks it!!! HAHA @ me screwing her husband. It's my sweet nectar he has on his lips as he goes back home.
mopar crazy Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 First off, it's not my fault that pimply little weasel of a man deserved his nuts chopped off. Men are good for nothing. All they know how to do is control and abuse so they all deserve to be used and thrown out like an old fuse. As for the wife: No, she does not know about the affair. I managed to catch a glimpse of her last friday when she showed up for a little banquet hall get-together after work. Well, her hair seems to be falling out as well. No other reason to explain what resembled a dead cat on her head. She must be going wiggy these days. The wife is a beat up old bag who carts around a lot more than tin cans. She's got major psychological issues stemming from her homely looks and putrid degenerate genes. And after he dumped her off home for bed, he came back and picked me up at our special place and we had some much needed raunchy sex in his garage. This woman thinks she is better than everyone else; a snooty old crone who gives off menacing looks. She's not actually that older than me but sure looks it!!! HAHA @ me screwing her husband. It's my sweet nectar he has on his lips as he goes back home. It's post like this from OW that make me want to hurl! I NEVER had that attitude when I was the OW. Seems to me you need to grow up LL. And you certainly are not a lady!
sadbuttrue Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 i agree mopar, LL is disgusting in her remarks. she is not the typical OW and makes us look even worse
sugar_sweet Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 What's the big deal about the W being better looking/uglier than the OW? I don't get this thread at all.
IfWishesWereHorses Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 First off, it's not my fault that pimply little weasel of a man deserved his nuts chopped off. Men are good for nothing. All they know how to do is control and abuse so they all deserve to be used and thrown out like an old fuse. As for the wife: No, she does not know about the affair. I managed to catch a glimpse of her last friday when she showed up for a little banquet hall get-together after work. Well, her hair seems to be falling out as well. No other reason to explain what resembled a dead cat on her head. She must be going wiggy these days. The wife is a beat up old bag who carts around a lot more than tin cans. She's got major psychological issues stemming from her homely looks and putrid degenerate genes. And after he dumped her off home for bed, he came back and picked me up at our special place and we had some much needed raunchy sex in his garage. This woman thinks she is better than everyone else; a snooty old crone who gives off menacing looks. She's not actually that older than me but sure looks it!!! HAHA @ me screwing her husband. It's my sweet nectar he has on his lips as he goes back home. :lmao::lmao: And you a princess with lips encrusted in herpes laced sweet nectar!:lmao::lmao:
sugar_sweet Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 This thread is 20 something odd pages full of insults. Personally, I don't know what my MM's W looks like, and I don't care. For me it's not about who's prettier than who. Again, what's up with a question like that anyway?
sadbuttrue Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 i think the OP just wanted to know if looks could be a deciding factor in affairs.
sugar_sweet Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Well, I'm sure there is in any R. Whether it's between two single people or whatever.
PoshPrincess Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 It's post like this from OW that make me want to hurl! I NEVER had that attitude when I was the OW. Seems to me you need to grow up LL. And you certainly are not a lady! I totally agree. How charming LittleLady is - NOT. I never had that attitude either Mopar. It really isn't about the BS, and it's certainly not about looks, but then I guess maybe LittleLady's A with her MM is all about SEX and what he get get from her!
TogetherForever Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 First off, it's not my fault that pimply little weasel of a man deserved his nuts chopped off. Men are good for nothing. All they know how to do is control and abuse so they all deserve to be used and thrown out like an old fuse. As for the wife: No, she does not know about the affair. I managed to catch a glimpse of her last friday when she showed up for a little banquet hall get-together after work. Well, her hair seems to be falling out as well. No other reason to explain what resembled a dead cat on her head. She must be going wiggy these days. The wife is a beat up old bag who carts around a lot more than tin cans. She's got major psychological issues stemming from her homely looks and putrid degenerate genes. And after he dumped her off home for bed, he came back and picked me up at our special place and we had some much needed raunchy sex in his garage. This woman thinks she is better than everyone else; a snooty old crone who gives off menacing looks. She's not actually that older than me but sure looks it!!! HAHA @ me screwing her husband. It's my sweet nectar he has on his lips as he goes back home. :sick:Well needed raunchy sex in his garage:sick:
Hugh_950 Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Oh please. We all know that most wives let themselves go and fall apart over time. Especially after they pop out a few. My MM's wife look like a fat lactating cow and she's never even been pregnant before. Ugh. My MM is so handsome and I guess that's why he digs me. I'm fit and beautiful with blue eyes and he is an Italian stallion. We fit together like two pieces of a locket. A person of her low calibar belongs with my husband. My husband is a bald abusing rat bastard whom I will soon be divorcing. Anyways, I've been living with my MM for a while now in a place of his and he goes home to his wife when I tell him I want to be alone. Honestly, I can't remember the last time in my life that sex has been this good. I'm trying to have a baby with him to secure my position in his life and pocketbook. He's been ejaculating inside me almost every sexual encounter. He thinks I'm on birth control. I will have the last laugh and that fat hog will be eradicated from his life. (had to bring LL's post out of moth balls) LittleLady, Let's see now, according to you ... - His wife is a "fat hog" and a "lactating cow", - Your husband is a "bald abusing rat bastard", - Your "Italian Stalion" hasn't left the "lactating cow" for you Are you sure you're really prettier than the cow? If you're so attractive then ... Why do you have to trick the stalion into impregnating you? Why hasn't he left his wife, willingly, on his own? Why can't you just attract a single man for youself? This whole thread is about whether or not OW is prettier than the W. It's also about if outward beauty is so important, on it's own ... They say beauty is only skin deep. But in you're case I'd say, "Ugly goes clear to the bone". This is an animal story for adults. About a cow/hog, a horse, a rat and a little lady
Tomcat33 Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 This is an animal story for adults. About a cow/hog, a horse, a rat and a little lady :laugh::laugh::laugh::lmao: that is the funniest comment!
Melissa277 Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Maybe this post is a way to find out if the MM really does to the typical younger, prettier, OW. It seems from reading numerous responses that this isn't the case. Men and women both let themselves go during m. No question there. They get comfortable and in a good, loving and trusting R then they don't really have to worry about impressing anyone anyway right? I know I let myself go and my exH never gained a pound. But now its different. He got fat and I lost weight. I'm pretty fond of the divorce diet. Have to disagree with you there, Babybird. I did not let myself go ... in fact, I think I look better today than I did when we got married twenty-four years ago. WH did let himself go though, he's got the dreaded dresser disease ... his chest has dropped into his drawers!
TogetherForever Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 :laugh::laugh::laugh::lmao: that is the funniest comment! And all of the above takes place in a barn where some much needed raunchy sex happens. A barn, not a garage.
Melissa277 Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 First off, it's not my fault that pimply little weasel of a man deserved his nuts chopped off. Men are good for nothing. All they know how to do is control and abuse so they all deserve to be used and thrown out like an old fuse. As for the wife: No, she does not know about the affair. I managed to catch a glimpse of her last friday when she showed up for a little banquet hall get-together after work. Well, her hair seems to be falling out as well. No other reason to explain what resembled a dead cat on her head. She must be going wiggy these days. The wife is a beat up old bag who carts around a lot more than tin cans. She's got major psychological issues stemming from her homely looks and putrid degenerate genes. And after he dumped her off home for bed, he came back and picked me up at our special place and we had some much needed raunchy sex in his garage. This woman thinks she is better than everyone else; a snooty old crone who gives off menacing looks. She's not actually that older than me but sure looks it!!! HAHA @ me screwing her husband. It's my sweet nectar he has on his lips as he goes back home. You are so full of sh*t.
PoshPrincess Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 You are so full of sh*t. Yes, and give us OW an even worse name than we already have with the BSs on here (if that's possible!)
GregsBad Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 You are so full of sh*t. You mean that wasn't nectar?
TogetherForever Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 You are so full of sh*t. What? You don't believe this stuff?
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