Heavenly55 Posted May 19, 2007 Posted May 19, 2007 I am considering leaving my job..most likely after the summer. I'm new..3 months in but don't it like for many reasons. So the girl who trained me who also does what I do I'm beginning to really dislike. She's really young around 20 or so and at first I thought she was really nice and sweet..but too nice..there was something off. She's always made it a point to spend half of her day going over to each persons cubicle to talkto them always:rolleyes: with a smile and her fake laugh but I find people like her to be well phoney. I also noticed that whenever she would come over to visit me she would look at my boss while she was doing it..I guess to make it look like oh there she being so helpful wat a good worker..you know. So I started to notice little things..like she would show me how to do something but happen to forget to show me part of it so when I would do it..it would be done wrong. My bosses treat me great, I get to leave early they've made exceptions for me etc..so she could be jealous thinking hey here I am this new girl why I am getting treated like this. So she is friends with a married 38 yr old coworker whose also a high up. Now sorry but marriend middle aged men don't go around making friendships with 20 yrs old girls they've known for a few months..doubt his wife would be too happy. I really don't care for him and he kinda creeps me out. I catch him staring at my chest all the time and I've given him dirty looks so I think he gets that I'm not that fond of him. Anyway unfortunately I'm his assistant. We say hi, bye and talk only when it's work related. So I answer his phones and little miss sweety calls him at least 5-10 times a day. She visits him at his desk another 5-10 times a day. They've gona out for drinks ALONE just the 2 of them after work. I think they also sneak out for lunches together too bc when he's out to lunch she'll happen to be gone too. They're always in the halls whispering to one another and the way he looks at her..bascially he leers and you would have to be blind or dumb not to know what he's thinking. So at a office party someone said something to her about her "friendship"..well she got beyond defensive then the whole rest of the night she kept telling me how they're just friends and they knew people would think something and how if something was going on don't u think they wouldn't be going out for drinks with one another. I went out for lunch with them once for a meeting and he sat there with his arm on the back of her chair, agreeing with everythig she said..it was like they were on a date..it was kinda nausating..and her I think she loves every minute of it. I would care less but thing is..work that should be given to me since I'm his supposed assistant is given to her instead. I mean if we're gonna play favorites here fine but there's also the fact that she is late at least 3-4 times a week usually an HR TO 2 HRS...not 10 or 20 min. She also leaves early when her boss isnt here and has takes2/12 hr lunches..oh I forgot to add her work pal left like hf an hr before she disappeared:rolleyes:. It's clear she's the go to girl bc she's phoney, puts on her little innocent act(which I would bet my life on she's not) and quite honestly coming in 2 hrs late on a consistant basis..this is what is kept around. What do u guys think? Is she able to do what she pleases bc she banging this guy who is also friends with her boss? Do you think they are just "friends"? Can she be this navie to know that you don't go around becoming friends with married men. Also does it make sense to stay in a place where favorites are chosen..
sb129 Posted May 19, 2007 Posted May 19, 2007 Sorry, but I don't think it is any of your business what they are to eachother. I can appreciate how annoying it must be, and personally I would find her infuriating, but I don't really know what you can do other than leave.
Author Heavenly55 Posted May 19, 2007 Author Posted May 19, 2007 Sorry, but I don't think it is any of your business what they are to eachother. I can appreciate how annoying it must be, and personally I would find her infuriating, but I don't really know what you can do other than leave. like I said in my original post of course it's not I could give 2 craps what they're doing..but when it's affecting me ie: favoritism and not be given assignments..then yeah I'm gonna take notice.
sb129 Posted May 19, 2007 Posted May 19, 2007 But what can you do apart from leave? Is there someone higher up you can complain to?
Author Heavenly55 Posted May 19, 2007 Author Posted May 19, 2007 But what can you do apart from leave? Is there someone higher up you can complain to? no you're right..pretty much nothing..and in this place I would never in a million years complain..nothing is kept confidential even when it is an hr issue. For example I had a problem, my manager and hr was involved..I was even told by my manager that no one knew about. Well little miss innocent brough it up to me one day outta the blue..how did she find out..obviously my manager or someone told her so imagine if I ever went to complain about her what would happen lol.
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