princess75 Posted May 19, 2007 Posted May 19, 2007 Yes, once he requested out I did let him out. I said please file it as soon as you can. He postponed it for 2 months, came to me, had nice time then said divorce again when I request we live together. I then did NC, no contact and now; he wants me out again. Now I am not saying NO to out, for me it is either we work on it and live together and do all as married couple, or we get a divorce. But he is every day calling me stating me to sign divorce papers b4hand, I dont want this. I have told him to go and file it and I will give him a clean divorce. He does not want to work on it, but he enjoys "my suffering?" I dont know I see it as we are being too childish, not mature love. I would like for him to see same thing, if he wants out...then he should do it. Also, he is making me sad as one of my issues I complained about is how he relates to the mother of his child. (ONe night stand got pregnant 8 years ago) She calls whenever, and goes to see them whenever. ...I dont think this is something I am nagging about but something essentially he should address if he really wants a marriage..WHY HE MARRIED THEN!? He never wanted to address this and on top of that since NC , he goes to see her more often; including slept in her house! Now, I did talk to her after this.... She says they have NOTHING GOING ON, he is FAMILY (father of the kid) but SHE LOVES ANOTHER MAN and is trying to work on her relationship with another man. He also stated she doesnt understand why he is doing this and that he shouldn't...SHE even stated SHE WOULD NEVER BE WITH HIM, as if they would have they would before and he is not what she wants in life. She even said "run while you can", I asked he is she sure she doesn't want him? Technically I am not sure if to believe her, but then WHY DOES HE go there?
LakesideDream Posted May 20, 2007 Posted May 20, 2007 Am I missing something? Isn't "there" where his biological child is? I bet you the dirty rotten scum even pays his child support.
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