laufen Posted May 19, 2007 Posted May 19, 2007 i dont know what is wrong .. or is it me who is being picky or being ridiculous , i need some of your opinion . I like this guy and we became " a couple " just about 2 mths ago. I like him , we had a good time together , we laughed a lot and he is nice guy but we had arguments pretty often. The arguments mostly about opinion about life, religion and something like that. One thing which is bugging me is in his opinion, bible is not real and what christian believe is not real .He called him self as a free thinker. He thinks that bible has no evidence and it was merely human creation and he commented on my church somehow stupid. I would feel better if he didnt call it stupid or didnt say it is not real, bla bla . At least to show some respect to other people . Am i being ridiculous ? He kept on saying that he wants me to accept me just the way he is , he said he is rational , open minded and i try to accept the way he is. But he tends to use strong words when he commented something that i believe or something i did . Sometimes , i feel like giving it up and i dont want to have arguments among these kind of matters. His comments somehow very harsh n hurting. When i was upset with his comments, i just kept quiet. I didnt want to throw temper or say antyhing that i would regret later on. But everytime i kept quiet , he said it hurt him . Guys, will you continue a relationship with someone who almost always have different idea about what you think , you believe ? I feel sad everytime we quarelled and i feel so tired emotionally . i know i would be very sad if i couldnt see him again but i cant quarell all the time . I dont know ...
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