jusified Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 Hi guys, Well, I met this girl in one of my uni classes. I basically chased after her for 3 weeks after class (the class is only once a week) just to introduce myself and talk to her. She seems to keep to her self in class but when I do start the conversation I really enjoy talking to her. So last Thursday I chased her again outside and said "hey,do I have to ran after you everytime?". (I talked to her alittle in class) She replied "I was thinking are you coming? Then I saw you stay behind so like OK..... and I just left" I laughed and said "I need to get my name marked, I can't go to class for nothing." So we had a chat and I finally said "look, I barely get a chance to talk to you for longer then 5 minutes. So can I give you my number, and when you have time give me a call tonight or tommrow night? whenever you're not busy" She took my number and actually called my phone and gave me hers, hey, I didn't even expect that. Anyways, wait till Friday night (only the day after, I don't like games), she hasn't called so even though I asked her to call, I decided o give her a call. No one picked up and the voice bank was full. I was planning on calling one more time on sunday night, if she doesn't pick up I will leave a text saying "hey, how are you? I called you couple of times to see how you are doing with studies and what you've been up to. I would like to talk to you so call me back ok? I'm not that scary I promise." So what do you guys think about how she feels?? and what I plan on doing. She seems like a nice girl and I just want to get to know her and then see how it goes. thanks heaps jus
Trialbyfire Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 jusified, the next time you see her, ask her out. Even if she turns you down, you will at least have your answer about how she feels about you. No risk, no reward.
Author jusified Posted May 18, 2007 Author Posted May 18, 2007 I agree, but there is alot of assignments and finls coming up. So she mightbe busy. I was thinking maybe after final.... maybe next ime Isee her hmmmm. But do you think its orite to call her again on sunday? I have no idea in actual dating or getting a date lol.
fray718 Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 you remind me of this guy who chased me for weeks and while i liked him i was reallllyyy shy and gave him mixed signals. Finally, he gave up...and I felt sooo sad about it that I finally decided to initiate contact again. He was really happy then and pursued me hard and we dated for a bit until I started becoming more into him than he was into me and I got clingy and got my heart broken ...well long story short keep chasing her! Just dont break her heart
annabelle75 Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 If she is as shy and quiet as you say, the thought of calling you might be freaking her out. You should have just told her you would call her. It would have taken the pressure of of her and made it less scary. Call her again this weekend and ask her out. The only way you will know is if you ask.
Trialbyfire Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 I don't see any reason why you shouldn't call her but don't text...please. I'm of the opinion that text can easily be construed in many ways and in some ways, is way too easy. Ya' know what I mean? The reason I'm not discouraging you to call is that she swapped numbers with you and even verified it, while you were standing there.
Author jusified Posted May 18, 2007 Author Posted May 18, 2007 well yea, I called her already yesterday, so I'll call again tommrow. Well I was ging to text if she doesn't pick up again. So you guys think its good to call but if she doesn't pick up just wait till Thursday when I see her and not text? Well fray, don't worry, I don't go around breaking hearts . If i take it seriously I'm always committed and awesome boyfriend.
Guest Posted May 19, 2007 Posted May 19, 2007 She could just not be interested. I suppose you have nothing to lose. Girls!!! It is annoying when they send mixed signals.
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