Kamille Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 I was out of town for a few weeks, and right before leaving, I had met this really sweet, smart funny guy. We'd hung out and gone on maybe two or three casual dates and everything was really great. According to me. We joked around a lot were comfortable with each other. We were also both invested in taking things slow, him even more then me - although I did find it a relief that he wasn't rushing into anything. I got back a few days ago and we hung out yesterday. It was bad. We barely had anything to say to each other. I eventually got into this weird mood that I coudln't shake off and eventually decided I was going to stop trying to shake it off. He dropped me off at home, we didn't kiss (but it wasn't really appropriate because there were people on the front porch). He asked me what I was doing this weekend and I told him some of my plans. He told me to give him a call and I basically replied that he sould call me. He made plans to see me tomorow night. I don't get it! What is going on? He feels miles away all the time. I'm thinking maybe he is also dating other people, which is fine. But if things aren't clicking between the two of us, why is he making more plans?
Trialbyfire Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 Everyone has an off-day, here and there. Sometimes people can be distracted by stress or just plain cranky for reasons unknown. Maybe he had one of those nights but still enjoys your company.
alphamale Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 I don't get it! What is going on? He feels miles away all the time. I'm thinking maybe he is also dating other people, which is fine. But if things aren't clicking between the two of us, why is he making more plans? well you don't even know this guy yet KAMILLE....and you're also putting the cart ahead of the horse and taking things too fast. Chill out man! BTW wasn't a hurricaine named after you?
Author Kamille Posted May 18, 2007 Author Posted May 18, 2007 BTW wasn't a hurricaine named after you? My 'Kamille hurricane' google search came up with no tangible results so uh... is that Katrina you mean? Yea chill out is what I should do and I think I was the one having an off day. And therefore I felt like I was being a horrible date. But then he also did not contribute much to the conversation. Whatever, overanalysing begets nothing.
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