Double D Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 Hi All! I would appreciate you advice/opinon on this. My ex e-mailed yesterday to invite me to be her Bebo friend (like myspace and Hi5). Its the first time I have heard from her in 7 months and we have been doing NC. I deleted her number and e-mail address. After she broke up with me. I wrote her the 'letter' saying I wanted to be friends and stuff and she replied very much implying she didnt want that, so have respected her decision and very much kept my distance. Even to this day I am struggling with the break-up still and BANG! she e-mails out of the blue. What you guys think? Grrrrrrrrr!
Zankon Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 I know how it feels and I know what you want to hear from us. but I ll tell you this, it means NOTHING. Don't join it, dont reply to it. Just ignore it and go on with you your life. There are millions of girls out there, don't waste your energy on this.I know it's hard but no pain no gain.
amaysngrace Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 I think she just wants you to join so she can have another friend. Either that or she wishes you knew what she's been up to. Either way it's for her benefit and not yours. Don't go there.
stupidhead Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 i don't know anything about this service but i do know that some services are tricky and will send invitations to everyone in your address book without you realizing you're consenting to it. just a thought.
Lizzie60 Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 if you're still struggling with the break-up...don't go. Who know what her intentions are but it just fishy to me.
confucious Posted May 19, 2007 Posted May 19, 2007 I agree with Stupidhead...A lot of these sites ask for your email addy AND your password. Some won't accept anything but your real assword as they try accessing right away and if it doesn't work don't let you sign up. If the email was a formulaic one (if it's not you'll be able to tell as I am sure she would say SOMEthing more than join at this link if you haven't talked for 7 months) then this is the case. Trash it and keep going on with your life. After all, she didn't want to be friends. Perhaps you could block her too....
Author Double D Posted May 24, 2007 Author Posted May 24, 2007 Thanks people all sound advice as usual. What I did in the end was accepted the invite but deleted the e-mail and have no intention of putting anything on her page. Dont want her to get the impression she still has an effect on me, even though that isnt the case I think you guys are right it was the type of e-mail that would suggest it went to loads of people. I have deleted her e-mail address.
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