loveinlife Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 unsure what life has to offer...after my ex did an nc on me. Im pretty much on my way to move on. Getting used dealing life and becoming responsible for my actions including the healing process. But i am unsure what will happen next. what kind of relationship life has to offer to me. I have been neglecting to meet any girls bc of the my ex situation. just cant like a girl bc of the hurt they can bring yet i am unsatisfied bc i want to hug a significant other to go sleep. I want to love again. im am not sure anymore.
polywog Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 You'll love again, but you're still healing which takes time. I know the future, the"great unkown", is scary because I'm dealing with it too. Just focus on the present, because that's where things can happen. Be kind to yourself while you're at it. Let yourself grieve, but try not to wallow in the fear. Good luck, it'll get better.
Author loveinlife Posted May 17, 2007 Author Posted May 17, 2007 Thanks Poly, your right! I am scared. After being with someone for so long and having by my side was comfortable. This uncertainty is chewing me up, im losing the confidence i have...
thatmatt Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 I'm right there with you loveinlife, I'm getting over a first love, and i'm the same way! Scared of getting hurt again, but really missing the connection of a relationship. Just remind yourself that while this is a situation that makes you uncomfortable, you're learning a lot about yourself. You probably learned a helluva lot from your relationship, and now you are learning a lot about yourself, which will make you a more complete person. It's all a learning experience, I had my fair share of mistakes in my relationship, and have made some still even after the breakup, some bad ones at that, but it just reminds me that i'm still growing, that I still have a lot to learn, but at the same time I've come a long way. I find that for me, it's a great confidence booster when I'm down about my past relationship, to look at the road traveled, and all that I have learned and will continue to learn.
krzr Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 even if you were still with your ex you would still be unsure what life had to offer?!?!?! go out and live it dont let it come to u.
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