MissKissNada_Gal Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 well i text my boyfriend saying how r u. he text back. i text him bac asking if instead of saying he was going to call asap an not calling, if he just not say unless he was sure. (notr in a rude way or anything). he said, "i said ill call u asap. dont acuse me.. that means wen i can. and i tried cing u yesterday n u walked away. i wanted to call sat but u said it was to late." i just think it doesnt take much to call for two minutes. he said hed call asap thru text on sunday night. he has scool i shuld no asap means wen hes not busy... wen i text him it was tuesday night. but anyway, hes usually always the one to call or text. wich in my opinion is the way our relationship should be and wuts most comfortable... then he said, "u no if i dont calll, u can call me. i dont have to be the only one callin. im not mad just dont accuse me." now guys, wuts he saying? i mean i know wut hes saying but if u were to say wut he said wut r u trying to say, how r u feeling? i dont get it.
GregsBad Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 well i text my boyfriend saying how r u. he text back. i text him bac asking if instead of saying he was going to call asap an not calling, if he just not say unless he was sure. (notr in a rude way or anything). he said, "i said ill call u asap. dont acuse me.. that means wen i can. and i tried cing u yesterday n u walked away. i wanted to call sat but u said it was to late." i just think it doesnt take much to call for two minutes. he said hed call asap thru text on sunday night. he has scool i shuld no asap means wen hes not busy... wen i text him it was tuesday night. but anyway, hes usually always the one to call or text. wich in my opinion is the way our relationship should be and wuts most comfortable... then he said, "u no if i dont calll, u can call me. i dont have to be the only one callin. im not mad just dont accuse me." now guys, wuts he saying? i mean i know wut hes saying but if u were to say wut he said wut r u trying to say, how r u feeling? i dont get it. Now doan b mad wit me, cause im jus sayin ... K? u bes jus 4get bout dis boy. he doan call caus he probly doan have no fone ... an probly takin da bus 2. u jus hole out 4 nuther boy. things be jus fine soon. unerstan wut im sayin' ?
Island Girl Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 Now doan b mad wit me, cause im jus sayin ... K? u bes jus 4get bout dis boy caus he probly doan have no fone ... an probly taken da bus 2. u jus hole out 4 nuther boy. things be jus fine soon. unerstan wut im sayin' ? BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Island Girl Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 You shouldn't use texting in a relationship because of this very situation. You can't tell how he was saying whatever he has said because there is no tone in his voice, etc. It is in text form which can be interpreted in a multitude of ways. You should make any guy who wants to talk to you - call you. And if you want to talk to them - call them. If someone is so busy they can't make a phone call that lasts a few minutes then they aren't worth your time. And you shouldn't type like you are sending a text message here. You aren't being charged by the letter so there's no need to abbreviate and you'll get more responses to whatever your question(s) may be.
Author MissKissNada_Gal Posted May 17, 2007 Author Posted May 17, 2007 wtf. he does call al the time...haha didnt u read my message... he calls, but this time he said call asap and i mean it was two days after, but he just recently called cuz he wanted to talk and we had a great convo
Star Gazer Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 Now doan b mad wit me, cause im jus sayin ... K? u bes jus 4get bout dis boy. he doan call caus he probly doan have no fone ... an probly takin da bus 2. u jus hole out 4 nuther boy. things be jus fine soon. unerstan wut im sayin' ? I literally had to cover my mouth and run ALL THE WAY out of the office to laugh VERY LOUDLY because of this!!! :lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:
Island Girl Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 haha didnt u read my message... he calls, but this time he said call asap and i mean it was two days after hahaha Didn't you read mine? He called two days after he said he was going to. I'm glad you are so thrilled with that. You've got him right where you want him. (BTW that statement is meant to be facetious) Good luck with that.
che_jesse Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 well i text my boyfriend saying how r u. he text back. i text him bac asking if instead of saying he was going to call asap an not calling, if he just not say unless he was sure. (notr in a rude way or anything). he said, "i said ill call u asap. dont acuse me.. that means wen i can. and i tried cing u yesterday n u walked away. i wanted to call sat but u said it was to late." i just think it doesnt take much to call for two minutes. he said hed call asap thru text on sunday night. he has scool i shuld no asap means wen hes not busy... wen i text him it was tuesday night. but anyway, hes usually always the one to call or text. wich in my opinion is the way our relationship should be and wuts most comfortable... then he said, "u no if i dont calll, u can call me. i dont have to be the only one callin. im not mad just dont accuse me." now guys, wuts he saying? i mean i know wut hes saying but if u were to say wut he said wut r u trying to say, how r u feeling? i dont get it. I recently sent a text message to my boyfriend asking how he is. After he replied to my message I inquired if we could agree that instead of just agreeing to call me back right away and then not calling he could just inform he is not sure that he can call. Mind you this was said as nicely as possible. His reaction was as follows: "I said I will call you as soon as I can, don't accuse me... If I said I'll call that means when I can. I tried calling you yesterday and you walked away. I wanted to call Saturday but you said it was to late." I just think that it doesn't take much to call for two minutes after he said he would call ASAP through text messages on Sunday night. I understand that he has school and I should know "ASAP" means when hes not busy but I texted him on Tuesday night. He is usually the one to call or text which in my opinion is the way our relationship should be and it is whats comfortable. Then he says "you know if I don't call you can call me. I don't have to be the only one calling. I'm not mad but please don't accuse me." Now guys, what on earth is he saying? I mean, I understand what he is saying but if you, as a man, were to say what he said what are you trying to say about your feelings? I just don't understand.
Author MissKissNada_Gal Posted May 18, 2007 Author Posted May 18, 2007 [/left] I recently sent a text message to my boyfriend asking how he is. After he replied to my message I inquired if we could agree that instead of just agreeing to call me back right away and then not calling he could just inform he is not sure that he can call. Mind you this was said as nicely as possible. His reaction was as follows: "I said I will call you as soon as I can, don't accuse me... If I said I'll call that means when I can. I tried calling you yesterday and you walked away. I wanted to call Saturday but you said it was to late." I just think that it doesn't take much to call for two minutes after he said he would call ASAP through text messages on Sunday night. I understand that he has school and I should know "ASAP" means when hes not busy but I texted him on Tuesday night. He is usually the one to call or text which in my opinion is the way our relationship should be and it is whats comfortable. Then he says "you know if I don't call you can call me. I don't have to be the only one calling. I'm not mad but please don't accuse me." Now guys, what on earth is he saying? I mean, I understand what he is saying but if you, as a man, were to say what he said what are you trying to say about your feelings? I just don't understand. I recently sent a text message to my boyfriend asking how he is. After he replied to my message I inquired if we could agree that instead of just agreeing to call me back right away and then not calling he could just inform he is not sure that he can call. Mind you this was said as nicely as possible. O ok, so che jeese, r u saying this is something my boyfriend and i should try?
annabelle75 Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 I recently sent a text message to my boyfriend asking how he is. After he replied to my message I inquired if we could agree that instead of just agreeing to call me back right away and then not calling he could just inform he is not sure that he can call. Mind you this was said as nicely as possible. O ok, so che jeese, r u saying this is something my boyfriend and i should try? :lmao:
GregsBad Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 i was talkin 2 "gregs bad." u talkin da me? o ok - try this wit him ... He ask u to 4giv him ? u say 2 him ... baby i need a man ... but u r b n a boy if you wont flote my boat, i wont 4giv u, i wil 4get u. 2 many other factors in my life 2 ... wantin wut I have 2 giv so - 2 u i say - how sad - 2 bad but - ok - may b i give 1 mor chance 4 u 2 b a man.
GregsBad Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 [/left] I recently sent a text message to my boyfriend asking how he is. After he replied to my message I inquired if we could agree that instead of just agreeing to call me back right away and then not calling he could just inform he is not sure that he can call. Mind you this was said as nicely as possible. His reaction was as follows: "I said I will call you as soon as I can, don't accuse me... If I said I'll call that means when I can. I tried calling you yesterday and you walked away. I wanted to call Saturday but you said it was to late." I just think that it doesn't take much to call for two minutes after he said he would call ASAP through text messages on Sunday night. I understand that he has school and I should know "ASAP" means when hes not busy but I texted him on Tuesday night. He is usually the one to call or text which in my opinion is the way our relationship should be and it is whats comfortable. Then he says "you know if I don't call you can call me. I don't have to be the only one calling. I'm not mad but please don't accuse me." Now guys, what on earth is he saying? I mean, I understand what he is saying but if you, as a man, were to say what he said what are you trying to say about your feelings? I just don't understand. Che, Damn girl! ... dis doan make no sins ! wats wrong wit u?
Author MissKissNada_Gal Posted May 19, 2007 Author Posted May 19, 2007 yeah i was a lil confused by wut u sent in ur email to che jee. u included wut in sad and wut u said plus wuts up with the crying faces? anyway its all good now. he keeps telling me wut a great kisser i am tho, ugh... i am not the best kisser in the world!
GodofNietzsche Posted May 19, 2007 Posted May 19, 2007 If your is post is reflexive of how you actually communicate with people (in person) than possibly the problem in your relationship is communication. Also, if you expect him to intiate all of the communication in the relationship, then you are essentially putting all of the burden of thr responsiblilty to communication onto him. This is not fair. You are acting like a child. Stop this. Like you said, it's comfortable for you, probably because it is easy for you. Relationships aren't easy. They are a lot of work. But then again, anything in this world that is worthwhile takes tremendous effort to accomplish.
VinaAmez Posted May 19, 2007 Posted May 19, 2007 I'm sorry but I have no idea what your saying but based on your other threads I'm clueless why you are posting them. There's nothing wrong with holding hands or telling someone they kiss good. Maybe you don't want it like that. I sure hope not. Are you not use to relationships being like this? I personally think your reading to much into things and should try to stop questioning everything he does.
justagirliegirl Posted May 19, 2007 Posted May 19, 2007 u talkin da me? o ok - try this wit him ... He ask u to 4giv him ? u say 2 him ... baby i need a man ... but u r b n a boy if you wont flote my boat, i wont 4giv u, i wil 4get u. 2 many other factors in my life 2 ... wantin wut I have 2 giv so - 2 u i say - how sad - 2 bad but - ok - may b i give 1 mor chance 4 u 2 b a man. :lmao::lmao: btw its boi n baybee :lmao:
justagirliegirl Posted May 19, 2007 Posted May 19, 2007 yeah i was a lil confused by wut u sent in ur email to che jee. u included wut in sad and wut u said plus wuts up with the crying faces? anyway its all good now. he keeps telling me wut a great kisser i am tho, ugh... i am not the best kisser in the world! Please learn how to spell and write correctly. A boyfriend is the least of your problems. Is English actually taught in the schools or is it now IM 101?
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