longlegzs80 Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 What is the problem majority of white guys have with a white girl dating a black guy? I am not dating a black guy, but there is this guy at work who asked me out and I told him I am not interested in dating, but would like to maybe be friends. So, that is that. Just curious.
Lizzie60 Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 What is the problem majority of white guys have with a white girl dating a black guy? I am not dating a black guy, but there is this guy at work who asked me out and I told him I am not interested in dating, but would like to maybe be friends. So, that is that. Just curious. I have never heard that white guys had problem with a white girl dating a black guy. If they have...well, that's THEIR problem and they are RACIST. I feel that you are a bit racist, from your post...why do you care what other people think?
Author longlegzs80 Posted May 17, 2007 Author Posted May 17, 2007 I agree with you Lizzie. Don't mean to come off as being racist, I don't want to come across as that. It seems like the guys I have met in the past have had a problem with the white girls dating black guys. I don't think it is a problem. At this stage I just want a friendship if any guy can handle that.
CL55 Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 You show me 1000 scumbags black men, I'll show you 1000 scumbag white men. You show me 1000 cheating black men, I'll show you 1000 cheating white men. You show me 10 black male serial killers, I'll show you 10,000 white male serial killers. What is my point? Everyone is black when the lights go off. If everyone was color blind then what? I am of mixed ethnic descent, however, I am neither black nor white. I think your question is absolutely superficial. The fact that it matters to you what a "white man" or "white person" has to say or think about who you date goes to show me that you are the type of person who thrives off the validation of others. This guy who you shot down could of been the love of your life. This guy who you shot down could of also been the disaster of the decade. You will never know the outcome of either scenario . It would be really crappy of you to try and be a friend to this guy after posting such a subject on a public forum. Stick to your own KIND, so next time you don't have to post such a ridiculous subject on a public forum. A.J.C
Trialbyfire Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 If there's chemistry, who cares what race anyone is. We each have facial and body shape preferences for attraction but to limit yourself by judging someone right off the bat, by race is wrong, in my opinion.
Road Rage Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 I think the majority of white guys have a problem with a white girl dating a black guy. Hey, it`s a white thing dude. I think the majority of black guys have a problem with a black girl dating a white guy. Hey, it`s black thing brutha. I think a majority of asian guys have a problem with an asian girl dating a white/black guy. It`s just an asian thing. I think....wait a minute, I could go on for hours like this! I think what I`m trying to say is that the majority of the six billion people on this planet are racist!
alphamale Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 I think what I`m trying to say is that the majority of the six billion people on this planet are racist! I would tend to agree RR....and not only is their racism between the different races but also within the races.
208PUA Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 A person reasoning for not liking that kinda thing can vary alot. Personally I find nothing wrong with interracial dating, in fact I PREFER to date outside my own race (I'm white BTW) The problem that I have with the majority (atleast it seems) of white girls who date black guys is that they really flaunt it around, like "Ooooo look at me! I'm dating a black guy! It's still kinda taboo...right?" For example, I was playing pool last Thursday. I live in Idaho, so black guys are a rare sight. Well these two black guys come in, and with them are the HOOCHIEST white chicks I've ever seen. I'm talking tube tops, cut off jean shorts and stripper shoes. HOOCHY. Well the whole time my friend and I are shooting pool, these girls are all over these guys and looking around like "Is anybody noticing? Come on white chicks with black guys!! Someone pay attention to this!!" I have however seen some normal decent white chick/black guy couples and I say all the more power to em, just don't act like its a trophy thing.
alphamale Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 I have however seen some normal decent white chick/black guy couples and I say all the more power to em, just don't act like its a trophy thing. who's getting the trophy in that scenario?
208PUA Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 I was just saying love each other, don't act like the person your with is some kind of trophy to flaunt around.
burning 4 revenge Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 who's getting the trophy in that scenario?Are you detecting subconcious racism?
txpleasure Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 Hello the new guy here... I am going to speek as a parent of 4 grown girls 17-23 that has gone through this a couple of times!! I was brought up in the south, old world old ways.. I have never been allowed to be a racist by my actions or words... I have done my best to raise my girls the same way But in saying that I have to say this... I have never had a problem with my girls dating a good boy or young man, It has never really been problem because a few of them have been black, my problems lay in there ways or actions and words... The boldness and defiance in the youth today makes it really hard to respect or agree with there types of Diction, Expression, Music, etc..I dated outside my race a few times as a young adult, some of my best friends have been of all races.. I dont consider myself to be racist, a few of my ways maybe considered to be, and if they are I am truely sorry... I just know that a life with them values and morales will not get a couple very far...And since it happens to be my daughters I will never change my heart on that... So I hope this didnt come out wrong, I was only trying to speek as a father...
hardcase Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 What is the problem majority of white guys have with a white girl dating a black guy? I am not dating a black guy, but there is this guy at work who asked me out and I told him I am not interested in dating, but would like to maybe be friends. So, that is that. Just curious. Dunno...I see alot of black women having problems with black men dating white women too. So since I could care less...you'd have to ask a white guy that does...and a black woman that does.
hardcase Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 A person reasoning for not liking that kinda thing can vary alot. Personally I find nothing wrong with interracial dating, in fact I PREFER to date outside my own race (I'm white BTW) Why may I ask?
208PUA Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 Why may I ask? Not really sure why exactly, just personal preference I suppose. I've dated women who we're East Indian, Middle Eastern, Asian, Black, Hispanic and in general were more attracted to them than any white girl I have dated.
dbtmarley Posted May 22, 2007 Posted May 22, 2007 I am a 38 year old white male who has for the most part only dated inter racially. I grew up in a predominantly black neighborhood and went to a school that had hardly no racial mix what so ever. I have been with somewhere between 20-30 women my entire life and only one has been a white woman. I've told my fiance that over the years I have noticed most negative reaction from two different groups. Those groups? 1. Black men 2. White women Now like I said, I noticed the negative reaction and I want to clarify in my years since that first awkward date with Shiela at 16. I have only really had only one truly negative (life threatening) experience due to interracial dating. I have been asked by white women, "What is it about a black girl that makes you not want a white girl?" Being that I have been with only one white woman I surely would not be an authority on such things and to keep from sounding idiotic I want to stress there is no difference. It is the same thing as when a guy prefers blonds over brunettes in my opinion. Some of the looks I get from some white women when I am with my fiance (black) can only be deciphered as disgust...trust me. The other negativity I have experienced comes from some black men... It is not as bad as it was when I was younger, but then again I attribute that to me being in more of a hangout setting (club,bar, street corner) when I was young. I was told that black men think white guys just use black women for sexual purposes... I think it all is a bunch of crap.... and for the most part my fiance and I have the attitude like,"What you've never seen a man and a woman together before?" I think longlegs is correct in her feelings about it not sitting well with white men. I would also like to add that I agree with another poster who mentioned about black women also having issues with black men with white women. It is true! Longlegz, When you said that you turned the guy down because you were not interested, but then you come here asking this question, it makes me wonder. Do you really want to give it a go? If you do, just remember this... it takes a far more open mind than you have displayed here by asking this question. In my opinion.... interracial dating may not be for you. Thomas (Who's learned discussions on race will be a touchy issue)
mrmaximum Posted May 22, 2007 Posted May 22, 2007 I think the majority of white guys have a problem with a white girl dating a black guy. Hey, it`s a white thing dude. I think the majority of black guys have a problem with a black girl dating a white guy. Hey, it`s black thing brutha. I think a majority of asian guys have a problem with an asian girl dating a white/black guy. It`s just an asian thing. I think....wait a minute, I could go on for hours like this! I think what I`m trying to say is that the majority of the six billion people on this planet are racist! Like some other posters have said, there is a lot of racisim around. Like Hardcase has pointed out, I've gotten the evil eye many times when my xgf's and I, (I'm black and I've only dated one black woman, all the other's including my fiancee are white) would walk into a store, a club, you get the idea. One actually had the audacity to make a comment about it as we left a restaurant once. A Co-worker of mine was dating an Asian woman (he was white) and her parents put pressure on her to dump him. Lo and behold, she was dating another Asian guy after this. Last point; while I was raised "colour blind" (Black women never really approached me, I have no idea why, it isn't like a I had a preference) I have a buddy from the Philipines who out and out told me he doesn't like seeing a Phillipino girl with ANY other race. I asked him why; he simply said it was wrong. I was a little shocked because he was just two years older than me, not as if he was some sort of old man with 'out of date' ideas.
monkey00 Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 It is racist. Anyway this post reminds me about the same ordeal when asian guys complain that white guys are stealing their girls. Hell...its a free country, everybody can do as they please.
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