mat56 Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 Im trying to work this whole no contact thing. Not saying this will ever really happen but what if he calls me? Do I answer? When I talk to him to I just play it off like Im fine and Ive moved on? Do I avoid bringing up us or his new girlfriend? Just some questions that are on my mind.
Lizzie60 Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 Im trying to work this whole no contact thing. Not saying this will ever really happen but what if he calls me? Do I answer? When I talk to him to I just play it off like Im fine and Ive moved on? Do I avoid bringing up us or his new girlfriend? Just some questions that are on my mind. IF he calls, you should answer and tell him that everything's is fine and you're moving on alright... DON'T let him think that you're missing him ... he has moved on (with a new girl)... so you have too... *wink* Don't bring the past or his gf up... you will only sound desperate... Time to move on! Good luck!
Teeky3 Posted May 19, 2007 Posted May 19, 2007 Girl...PuhhhhLEEZE! If he calls, make sure you sound like you're in a great mood. Don't dare bring up the past or as Lizzie said the GF. Also act as if you're extremely busy...moving around and busying yourself. Try lifting something and taking a breath as if you're sort of pre-occupied. Then after about 2 minutes, pick up another phone...(hopefully you have a cell or house phone) call yourself and when the line beeps in, say...." oh I have another call, it was nice talking to you but I gotta grab this." Give him 1 week and I bet you he'll be blowing up your phone! Men are so predicatable that it's not even funny!
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