Guest Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 me (25 years) and my MM (38 years) are together since 1 and half years. we have a casual relationship (just for sex and some fun, lovely conversations and nice time together).. i never complain to him and he never stops me from dating... it was going well untill recently i met this single guy, he is 27 years old, very charming and nice, i have just started dating.. so i started to keep a bit of distance from MM, he noticed that and asked me, so i told him frankly that now i have started to date this guy and want some space so i can fall in love with him and make my life.. i even told him that its some time that i need to see if this guy is suitable for me, else i will be single again and will start seeing MM...till then i wanted to remain ony friends with MM(no sex) ...he was generally quiet when i told him all this and just said 'of course we will be friends..' but i dont know what happened after that ..i noticed that he has completely withdrawn, no sms no phone calls, which is actually good since i needed this space but disappearing completely didnt appeal to me... now i kindof miss his friendship. i met him 2 times and he was completely cold and distant as if we are not even friends..i asked him why so..he said he's fine but then again no contact.. now i feel odd and strange... i dont know y MM cant be just friends with me for a while.... and keep in touch a bit...y disappear like that?
Recommended Posts