torranceshipman Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 Hi guys, Some of you will remember my situation - my boyfriend ended it with me soon after his dad passed away, which was a real 360, as we had gotten very close and seemed very happy together. We were only together 2.5months when it happened, but we'd gotten very close... Since the split (1.5weeks ago), he's been in touch pretty much every day, either a nice txt, or calling me to say hi and talk...he's opened up a bit about his dad and said he misses me, and last week invited me to lunch with his mom, as she really wanted to meet me, and he really wanted me there. I couldn't go, as I got the message too late, but he said not to worry, there'd be plenty of other opportunities. Then yesterday, he called me again and invited me to lunch again with him and his mom this week...there were so many sweet signs over the last week that he wanted to slowly come back to the idea of us being together, so I asked him how he felt, and he said he meant what he said at the split, and that hadn't changed....I admit I was gutted as the signs over the last week had seemed to me like he was really showing interest again. I said I'd like to be a good friend to him but I might need some time and might not be able to go to the lunch because of this-it was such a recent split and emotional for both of us. He sent me a sad txt to say that he understood, but really wished I'd go as he and his mom would miss me...and I txted him back and said I wish I could go, and he called straight away to reiterate how much he wants me there...in the end, I decided I'd go, as I want to be a good friend to him right now... I get that he is low and vulnerable/confused, hence mixed signals, and I want to be there for him, but does it seem like he might still have feelings for me? I just figured that when you break up with someone, you don't keep in touch like that and then keep asking the person to lunch with your mom! Am I just reading this wrong?
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