BabyGirl0507 Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and now he is telling me that he doesnt love me enough to be with me. I dont understand how he can be so in love with me and then it just fades away like that. He has been seeing this other woman for about a month now and he has been bouncing back and forth between us. I cant take this anymore. I am almost 8 months pregnant with his baby and he is just gonna walk away like we never existed. He just wants to be friends but how can we be just friends after being together for a year and a half plus we have a baby on the way. I am just so confused!!! I need some advice!!! I know I should just let him go but I cant for some reason.
underpants Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 It is stories like this that make me want to hurl. I am so sorry that you are in this situation. Does this guy have other children, with other babies momma's? Does this other chick know that he is about to be a father? If so then she is just bad news. The only thing you can do sweetie is to look after yourself and your soon to be baby. I mean what kind of guy walks out on his child's mom, and into the arms of someone else no less....a scumbag that is who. You know what, since I gather you two are not married. Maybe you can convince him to relinqish his parental rights and then just let him go. He sounds not so great, as a boyfriend, partner, or father. Marriage nor pregancey ever changes or fixes someone. I wish you the best with your baby. Take good care, Unders
Island Girl Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 He has been seeing this other woman for about a month now and he has been bouncing back and forth between us. Don't allow him to bounce back and forth between the two of you. I know you are pregnant and your emotions are all over the place but just remember that the sane decision is to make the decision for yourself that he is spending time with another woman so he is OUT. Does he work? -- Is he responsible in any other aspect of his life? I don't agree with him signing over his parental rights - if he straightens up one area of his life which is financial - you are entitled to the assistance his funds will provide and you may need it for your child. But as far as a relationship goes you need to close the door on this one. The fact he could do this when you are pregnant is just despicable. The stress and trauma he is loading on you and his child is immeasurable. He is so low that he makes algae look like an advanced life form. Try to focus on yourself and the home you are working toward providing for your beautiful baby.
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