nwkdnblck Posted May 15, 2007 Posted May 15, 2007 [sIZE=5]Is she done with me????[/sIZE] I cheated on my fiance for about 10 months out of the 16 we were together. I actually slept with the girl once but we emailed and met up during lunch. I didn't call it off, she did. After she did I did indirect things to get her attention. Then I asked my gf to marry me. Now my fiance knows everything since the ex told her. My fiance and the girl I cheated with are in correspondence. I this is part of an email from my fiance to the girl: "I got your email...I'm sorry you got caught in the middle of this, I'm sure you are a nice person and I'm sure you will be fine. Please don't worry about me, I've been through a divorce after years of marriage, my brother and my best friend were murdered, there isn't much that could hurt me worse than that. I'm sure someday I will figure out what to do but for now I think I need some time to myself...I am sure I will make the right decision for myself. With out or with out him, I'll be fine." Is she done with me????
krzr Posted May 15, 2007 Posted May 15, 2007 she should be done with you and i hope she is unless u have made some insane realization and looked within and want to change who you are. i dont put ppl i love thru that kind of pain.
Author nwkdnblck Posted May 21, 2007 Author Posted May 21, 2007 Thanks. From a ladies point of view what does that mean?
mav100 Posted May 22, 2007 Posted May 22, 2007 Dude, You cheated on the woman and you want sympathy? You must be out of your gourd.... Go find another one to cheat on. This one deserves you outta her life.... I have no respect for cheaters - especially for someone who cheated 10 months out of a 16 month relationship... Blow.
Bella_xx Posted May 22, 2007 Posted May 22, 2007 From a ladies point of view. Not only are you gone... But you should be too. She would never trust you again, and she has no reason to. She doesn't deserve someone who will betray her for 10 months, and THEN ask her to marry him. If the other woman had not called it off, would you have kept it going indefinitely?? If you truly wanted your fiance in your life, you would have treated her as such. I also hope you look inside, and change.
Author nwkdnblck Posted May 23, 2007 Author Posted May 23, 2007 Thanks ladies. I wondered what the "I am sure I will make the right decision for myself. With out or with out him, I'll be fine." meant in girl talk.
Bella_xx Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 She knows she can't rely on anyone else (especially now, you) for her happiness. It appears she's been through a lot in her life, and has probably come out the other end a very strong, self-aware person capable of making the decisions she needs in order to live the life she wants. Without you - she WILL be fine. She's making a decision about whether you're welcome in her life now. I'd say she's come to the realisation that whether you are in her life or not, you won't be the source of her security, happiness and love. She will be. She might accept you back. But I wouldn't hold your breath.
Author nwkdnblck Posted May 23, 2007 Author Posted May 23, 2007 So like you said before, chances are she is done with me.
Bella_xx Posted May 23, 2007 Posted May 23, 2007 yes... but really, can you blame her?? She wouldn't be, had you not acted like you did.
hrtbroken99 Posted May 29, 2007 Posted May 29, 2007 mav100Dude, You cheated on the woman and you want sympathy? You must be out of your gourd.... Go find another one to cheat on. This one deserves you outta her life.... I have no respect for cheaters - especially for someone who cheated 10 months out of a 16 month relationship... Blow. I agree with Mav100, from a female's POV: once you cheat you always cheat, and the cycle of abuse continues...cheating is terrible crime in my book and I would NEVER give any man a second chance the only way he will learn is by NOT HAVING ANY SECOND CHANCE cheATERS should just seek out other cheaters and stick together..end of story..that is the most hurtful act someone can do (besides physical/verbal abuse)
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