serial muse Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 Dunno where to put this, since I'm long since divorced. But this seems as good a place as any. Anyhoo. My exH, who cheated on me and who I divorced lo these many moons ago (to be precise, we separated 3 and a half years ago, and have been fully divorced for 2 now), decided to email me this weekend, out of the blue. We haven't talked since the divorce, mind you. I know I have nothing to say. Anyway, it was a "was thinking about you and just wanted to say hi" type of email. Naturally, I won't be writing back. Because, basically, I still have nothing worth saying to say to him. Also, ugh. Just felt like sharing my "jigga-whaaa??" moment with all of you.
hardcase Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 Dunno where to put this, since I'm long since divorced. But this seems as good a place as any. Anyhoo. My exH, who cheated on me and who I divorced lo these many moons ago (to be precise, we separated 3 and a half years ago, and have been fully divorced for 2 now), decided to email me this weekend, out of the blue. We haven't talked since the divorce, mind you. I know I have nothing to say. Anyway, it was a "was thinking about you and just wanted to say hi" type of email. Naturally, I won't be writing back. Because, basically, I still have nothing worth saying to say to him. Also, ugh. Just felt like sharing my "jigga-whaaa??" moment with all of you. He must have run out of women that will fall for his cheating crap. Sounds like he's horny and thinks he can weasle his way back in. BTW...what is "jigga-whaaa"??
Trialbyfire Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 Not all serial cheaters dislike their exes. Some even still love them, although their definition of love is very different from the normal populace and incredibly unhealthy indeed. Stay strong or else he'll suck you back into his neediness!!
Author serial muse Posted May 14, 2007 Author Posted May 14, 2007 Not all serial cheaters dislike their exes. Some even still love them, although their definition of love is very different from the normal populace and incredibly unhealthy indeed. Stay strong or else he'll suck you back into his neediness!! hee hee hee, no way no how - i promise you that! i just couldn't be less interested in even talking to him at this point. no plans to respond. BTW...what is "jigga-whaaa"?? oh...hee...it's just a verbal double-take - another way of saying "what the hell?!?"
Trialbyfire Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 hee hee hee, no way no how - i promise you that! i just couldn't be less interested in even talking to him at this point. no plans to respond. I know exactly how you feel.
whichwayisup Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 was thinking about you and just wanted to say hi" Sounds like he had a weak moment, felt guilty or bad about cheating, how things have turned out and decided to see what would happen if he emailed you. I guess your silence will be his answer. What a fool he is!
Author serial muse Posted May 16, 2007 Author Posted May 16, 2007 The online equivalent of a drunk-dial. and that puts it neatly in perspective.
a4a Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 and that puts it neatly in perspective. Oh I could not let this slip by....... I would have to answer. Do you want a link to my ASS CAM to send to him? :lmao: "Don't be what you see" makes for a great tag line with the camera link. some people are just 'tarded. They really need to make a repellent for these sorts of situations. "Deflect an Ex" The repellent that keeps them away.
dropdeadlegs Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 Oh I could not let this slip by....... I would have to answer. Do you want a link to my ASS CAM to send to him? :lmao: "Don't be what you see" makes for a great tag line with the camera link. some people are just 'tarded. They really need to make a repellent for these sorts of situations. "Deflect an Ex" The repellent that keeps them away. Find a chemist and I'm financially backing from the ground floor in "Deflect an Ex" repellent. That is priceless. Serial Muse, the most beautiful part of a childless divorce is the fact that you NEVER have to communicate with that person again. The ONLY appropriate contact from him could only be a sincere, remorseful apology atoning for his actions in the destruction of your relationship. For me, that would have to include an expectation of nothing from your end in the way of forgiveness, or even acknowledgment. "Hey, how ya doin'? I was thinking about you" is so arrogant IMO. Like he thinks after the passage of time you will want to be his buddy or something. However, if you wanted to reply with a lashing, I could understand that. too.
Author serial muse Posted May 16, 2007 Author Posted May 16, 2007 some people are just 'tarded. They really need to make a repellent for these sorts of situations. "Deflect an Ex" The repellent that keeps them away. I agree with DDL - priceless! Sign me up. "Hey, how ya doin'? I was thinking about you" is so arrogant IMO. Like he thinks after the passage of time you will want to be his buddy or something. Arrogant is an apt word for it! I couldn't quite put my finger on what I thought of this, but I think that describes it pretty well. Honestly, I can't help but wonder what sort of response a person would expect to get with this...e.g. "I'm great, how've you been, let's reminisce fondly over the good old times"? Riiiight. It's tempting to send the ASS CAM...
Trialbyfire Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 Ooooooh, the possibilities of "DAEX" has so much potential. How about: Shot #1. something so tastefully hawt, it makes him drool (nothing revealing, just looking great), Shot #2. you and an amazing looking guy, arm in arm, smiling into the camera? A one-two punch. :bunny:
Djaba Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 The ONLY appropriate contact from him could only be a sincere, remorseful apology atoning for his actions in the destruction of your relationship. For me, that would have to include an expectation of nothing from your end in the way of forgiveness, or even acknowledgment. "Hey, how ya doin'? I was thinking about you" is so arrogant IMO. Like he thinks after the passage of time you will want to be his buddy or something. What DDL said.
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