Guest Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 All, I have finally come clean to my wife of 5 years about an affair I had 5 + years ago. We have two young boys. This was two weeks ago. She is hurt, empty, gutted, well just about everything. The person she trusted most has let her down big time. I want her so so badly, i'm scared. I had sex with someone else twice over a 2 year period. Big problem is, this person is sort of a friend of hers and has asked us to be god parents to he child. I think now that she has always "held a candle" for me. I have told her all about it and we are still living together and getting on with things. We are still having sex and going out etc. I think she still loves me and it trying for the sake of what we have. She needs closure though. this other person doesn't know yet and does keep texting her saying "your quiet, etc, etc". She wants to meet up and sort things out, but I think it's a bad idea. I dont want to drag it all up again after I have been building bridges for the past two weeks. Her dad thinks we should all meet up also and I dont want to go against him. I am now taling to her family which is good and her parents like me (saying i'm worth it), but I really do not want to meet. I'm scared of more details coming out that I really dont remember. I have put it to the back of my mind, but women tend to remember more, dont they?.What can I do? I'm scared, I really want her badly and I cannot see a future without her. I love our boys and I love everything about her. I know i'm a very bad person and I hate myself for that, but I can make it up to her. I have suggested councilling, but she does not want to. she want to talk ourselves. Help
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