jimmy20013 Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 Today is my birthday and I am really disappointed that this is how I am celebrating it. Anyway, my ex dumped me on the 21st of May and the whole process began around this time last year. The memories of her are coming back and I am feeling very lost and lonely and hopeless. Life has lost it's meaning and I have no desires left anymore. I understand that this is happening because of the anniversary and everything but I want to know how to deal with it? I feel like I am worthless and that I am never going to find a woman who will love me. Tell me what to do? God I hope this stops.
krzr Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 find a woman that will love you because its been a year sorry man but its way over. you should not need her to feel happy about your birthday or hoping that she sends you a txt saying happy bday or something. it will just make u feel good for a moment then set u back thinking should i reply how and im so glad she is thinking about me blah blah its not gonna bring her back.
krzr Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 you will with that attitude im going thru similar feelings just look up my post "no contact getting tuffer !?!?!?" its just waves of emotions they pass its also holidays its also remembering the past whatever it is dont let it get you down too much try to block the thoughts and move on asap.
stupidhead Posted May 15, 2007 Posted May 15, 2007 don't have very much advice (i'm not doing great either, so i really can't help you on that front). but happy birthday! i'm not sure if you meant it was yesterday or today, but today's mine, so maybe we are birthday buddies
Author jimmy20013 Posted May 16, 2007 Author Posted May 16, 2007 I guess we are birthday buddies if your birthday is on the 14th of May as well. Happy Belated Birthday.
Teacher's Pet Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 Jimmy, My ex broke up with me just a couple of weeks before my last birthday, and yeah, it sucked. This year, I plan on making up for it. In fact, I want to throw a party on the anniversary of my breakup (June 19th). Maybe I'll call it my "One Year Without The C**t" party! hehe All of LoveShack will be invited. -tp but still horny.
No Foolin Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 Here's a question........................Why are you celebrating he death of a relationship? No Foolin
silentcharon Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 Haha. My ex of 7 years broke up with me three days after my birthday last year, and then the ex I dated for a few months broke up with me the day before my birthday this year. My mom said, "Jeez, what's with break ups and your birthday?" I know you're feeling pretty rotten, I've been there twice, but it's something I laugh about whenever my birthday comes up now. You'll be able to look back and laugh about it, so for now, just try to enjoy your birthday, you deserve it
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