Art_Critic Posted May 15, 2007 Posted May 15, 2007 But Art said that SHE is a sugardaddy if he charges her for costs. I didn't start the sugardaddy stuff - ART did it and got it backwards. If HE wants to be a sugardaddy then god bless him. So can I move in Art? I didn't get it backwards.. you aren't listening.. I may have worded it funny.. so I'll try and explain If my bills don't change if a girl lives with me or not then I charge her rent when she starts living with me then I am profiting off of her.. She then becomes my sugar momma if she pays rent.. profiting off of your SO is becoming a taker and not a giver..
Art_Critic Posted May 15, 2007 Posted May 15, 2007 Oh -I have a H-U-G-E family, Art -and they want to move in, too! (Laughing) -Rio Fine.. I have a 6 bedroom house with 2 full kitchens.. enough for ya ? By the way.. your BF's rent just went wayyyy up...
GregsBad Posted May 15, 2007 Posted May 15, 2007 I didn't get it backwards.. you aren't listening.. I may have worded it funny.. so I'll try and explain If my bills don't change if a girl lives with me or not then I charge her rent when she starts living with me then I am profiting off of her.. She then becomes my sugar momma if she pays rent.. profiting off of your SO is becoming a taker and not a giver.. Uh ... went over my head ... maybe the wine ... I'm tryin' though. Let's see. You let her share in costs ... she's a sugardaddy. But if you let her stay for free then she's not ... and you're not. Doooh! I'll never get this. I'm goin' to bed. Good night Art.
Art_Critic Posted May 15, 2007 Posted May 15, 2007 I'll never get this. I think that as long as both people are fine with it it really isn't anything more than living together.. there is no sugar daddy momma thing.. Just so you know.. I'm not against people that split bills or pay/charge rent for their SO.. It just so happens I'm not the type that does that as it would make me feel like I was cheating them..
riobikini Posted May 15, 2007 Posted May 15, 2007 re: ArtCritic: "Fine.. I have a 6 bedroom house with 2 full kitchens.. enough for ya ? By the way.. your BF's rent just went wayyyy up..." (Smile) Art I couldn't bring myself to leave Tennessee. Even if Sweet Georgia ain't that far. -Rio
Art_Critic Posted May 15, 2007 Posted May 15, 2007 Art I couldn't bring myself to leave Tennessee. I hear ya...I feel the same way 'bout Ga.
GregsBad Posted May 15, 2007 Posted May 15, 2007 ok - I'll try once more - then quit. If she moves in - you're costs DO go up. Stop saying they don't. If she moves in for free, her costs go waaaaaaayyyyyy down! Ask any girl - I think she'd agree that you're the daddy? I'm not criticizing you Art. In fact if a girl was hot enough, I'd do it too. She could go to the beach ... eat bon bons ... But I'm the daddy!
riobikini Posted May 15, 2007 Posted May 15, 2007 I comprende'. 'nite, Art. -Rio (Damn! I hope I spelled that right!)
GregsBad Posted May 15, 2007 Posted May 15, 2007 I think that as long as both people are fine with it it really isn't anything more than living together.. there is no sugar daddy momma thing.. Just so you know.. I'm not against people that split bills or pay/charge rent for their SO.. It just so happens I'm not the type that does that as it would make me feel like I was cheating them.. OK - I get it now.
Tlady11 Posted May 15, 2007 Posted May 15, 2007 This is just me.. but no way in hell would I sign such a lopsided divorce agreement.. You have a right to live free of him after the divorce is final.. he should not ever be able to tie your finances to your cohabitation.. If you don't have legal advice then you need to get it and if you already have it then you need to fire that lawyer and hire a new one.. You're right of course, it bites, but it's also the law in my state. Life ain't fair and divorce is even worse.
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