alexa137 Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 my boyfriend of a year and i hve been having some problems past few weeks--i posted bfore but got no responses--got some on the other forum(cheating, etc) but thats beside the point bcause i dont really think he is--but now that i want him out bcause he has been avoiding me bcause he says i t ell him what to do, and treat him like i am his mother tc..more detail on other post--now i still am left hanging tonight when he came here and read a letter i wrote him saying to let me go--ive tried so hard and we do love each alot and i know--that is why ive tried so hard and probably why its so hard for him to leave--well i kinda told him that i can be with hm just for sex to decide what kind of relationship he wants--everything was ok til i blew up on him and my daughter one day when i was stressed out and he got mad-anyways so tonight is the first nite in a very long time that he is not sleeping here--thats why i am on here-cant sleep--says he needs to sleep on it and will be back over here tomm a fter work and then even said to have a hot shower and lingerie on! what is that he needs to sleep on? i dont get it! did he already make his decision or what? everytime i ask him questions he gets mad--im just trying to get answers--why hasnt he hugged or kissed me in weeks etc...no time for me just family and i am so hurt by it makes me feel like i am a bad person--its like when hes not here i hate him but as soon as he walks in the door--its a different story! why cant the hate overpower the love??? i mean we used to do things together and he also had his time with his family now i dont see him but to sleep so why would he leave tonight? i dont know i always think the worst and negative thoughts
krzr Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 grats on limbo........ sometimes people need to be alone to think about things nothing wrong with that. hes trying to figure out whats best for everyone not just you.
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