T&Me1117 Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 Hi everyone, I am an avid reader of all posts looking for something that relates to my present situation but I really haven't found what I am looking for so I thought that I would write. Well maybe just to vent, Here goes.... I am currently engaged to the father of our child (we got engaged after she was born). I said yes because in my heart I didn't want my daughter to not have her father around. My parents have been married 48 years and i am the last of 10 kids. The problem that I am having is we rushed into everything and I know in my heart that it has ruined our relationship. I got pregnant about 5 months into our relationship, at about 6 months pregnant we bought a condo together. We have had sex 4 times since our daughter was born (she is six months). I am currently a stay at home mom but I am going back to work in 2 weeks. I do everything, I pay all the bills, I take care of our daughter, I always got up in the night, i bathe her, dress her, put her to bed you get the picture. I understand he goes to work but I get no help. The only time he spends with her is one day a week when I take a class. But infront of other people he acts like he is Mr #1 dad HA!. Really believe me he is sweet he calls me atleast five times a day to see how the baby is and to tell me he loves me. But it doesn't make up for the lack of intimacy.He always has some excuse. I know that I gained alot of weight with the pregnancy, but love should be stronger than that. I took my engagement ring off today, I have had enough of being roomates. I just am afraid because everything is in my name (I am smart there) the condo, the cell phones, everything and i can't afford it by myself... I am just afraid that he will not be there for her, She is my love, I realized alot by having her, she has so much to learn in life i just don't want one of the ones that created her be the one to break her heart she will have plenty of that when she gets older.
Enema Posted May 13, 2007 Posted May 13, 2007 You haven't mentioned how he reacted when you talked to him about this. ......
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