nolagurl07 Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 I need advice..I have been seeing this guy i work with..we went out a couple times..i guess you can say about a month now. However, I am not actually his "girlfriend". From what i hear people tell me that he doesnt want a girlfriend or that hes just not looking for one right now. He keeps calling me though and we keep going out..i really like him but i dont know how to approach it..should i keep going out with him and hope he says something or should i tell him i really like him.. If i do tell him how do I that without sounding like im in love with him or something..Should i jus say straight up do u like me I think he does but sometimes i get the vibe like he doesnt..Please help i know i should just ask so i dont keep driving myself crazy but i dont know how to go about it!
alphamale Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 well #1 you should not date people you work with and #2 you've only had two dates and that don't make a relationship. I think you should slow down and try to seek potential mates outside of your workplace.
This_Too_Shall_Pass Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 well #1 you should not date people you work with and #2 you've only had two dates and that don't make a relationship. I think you should slow down and try to seek potential mates outside of your workplace. Word. Besides what Alpha said, I also wonder what vibe he actually has for you. If he likes you, he should behave that way and not keep you guessing. Really, I'd hate to be in this guessing game of "does he or doesn't he". It would piss me off majorly. If he's not being forthright and you feel he's taking the whole thing on a spin because it makes him feel like he's in control, then you have no business being with him.
Author nolagurl07 Posted May 12, 2007 Author Posted May 12, 2007 Well we had 6 dates but i see what you are saying thanks
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