romeo13 Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 well er im 14 and theres this girl i like whos 15 and she a really nice person..ive known her for about 2months and well...im crazy bout her...anyhoo...im not really sure if i should carry on tryin to get wif her...1 cuz pretty much all da guys in her year wanna get her...2 shes older dan me...3 bunch off guys who think dey all dat and all want a bit off ass!...now...dis girl is different from others..usually everywhere i turn i see chavs(have kids by like 12 and stuff and dey drink and smoke..hate dem) but dis girl is real innocent..shes practiclly perfect oh and shes shy too!...so anyhoo...ive been tryin for bout 2months and im one of dem shy ppl...but i will talk..anyway ive talkin to her over msn and wen we go town and stuff like that and we get along...but her really annoyin freind(ANONYMOUS=FAT,EVERYONE HATES HER and shes a chav) keeps ruinin everything everytime i try to speak to her...now ive got even more stuff to worry about...most 16 yr olds with like 8packs and stuff like her..and i think she likes one of dem too...im thinkin this becuase i see da guys name on her msn name(aim) but mines der too sayin im sweet....wat should i do?...i know im kid(adolesent) but plz holla bak..would really appreciate wat you have to say.
208PUA Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 Dear god, kid. For someone who hates chavs you sure do sound like one. Please use proper English, from what you say about this chick speaking better could possibly help tons. First off your 14 years old, there are tons of girls out there and you've got plenty of time. Now is a key time to work on your confidence. Since your shy you need to work to get over that. Believe me I understand shyness, I was the stereotypical nice guy most of my life. To me gaining confidence is a two step process. First you need to learn to have self-confidence. Is there something you don't like about yourself? Change it! You mentioned that really fit guys with killer abs like her. Well guess what ALL chicks dig that. Do some crunches, join a gym. The key is to learn to love yourself. How can you love yourself if you don't like the things about you? I used to be very fat, 260lbs+ it was something that was always on my mind when talking to girls, but when I lost the weight, it was like a weight off my shoulders. Secondly you need to overcome your fears of shyness and you do that by facing them head on. For me in high school, approaching girls was absolutly Terrifying. You know what I did to get over it? I approached girls, over and over again. I went to the mall and I asked 20 girls who were complete strangers for their phone number. At first they would say no, but since I became less nervous, they picked up on that and I actually got phone numbers! Now I'm 21. Talking to girls, or getting phone numbers, or calling girls on the phone is like the easiest thing in the world nowadays. Its like as easy as talking to my mother. No pressure, not nervous at all. Think about the types of guys that girls typical go for. Do they go for the nice guy that kisses their ass? Or do they go for the jerk? It's the jerk. They are attracted to that "I'm content enough with my life that I don't need a girl" kinda vibe. Hope that helps
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