dierks Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 My ex gf and I were together 2 years (Read other post). She has been married and I haven't. We talked about getting married and everything. Then she threw it in reverse. Said she was smothered and pulled out of the relationship. She wants to be alone for herself right now. I sort of put it back on her. Then went NC. She calls and leaves messages that she loves me and is in love with me and istn't doing this to hurt me. She needs to live for herself right now. Blah Blah Blah. She just wants a relationship to b 100% before she gets married again. My question is why she is calling at all and calling to explain herself?
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 My question is why she is calling at all and calling to explain herself? Two reasons: she is trying to justify what she is doing so that she doesn't want to look like the 'bad guy', and she is making sure that you stay put on the back burner. The solution? Stay with NC, and take it a step further and block all of her incoming calls, etc. so that she can't continue to contact you.
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