refresh88 Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 I celebrated my 25th birthday last week...the worst one so far. It's been a bad year cause everything in my life is going wrong. I hate my studies (i'm doing my masters in film);I don't even know why i started this degree, it doesn't stimulate me. i would like to find an interesting job, but despite my interesting cv (2 degrees and three foreign languages) i'm worried about being unemployed for ever. On top of that, there is a bad break up with a man that completely destroyed me by being violent and totally insensitive. Even though I'm not in love with him anymore, i'm really jealous of him cause he's a famous actor and gets a lot of (positive) attention from the press. He has a lot of money and friends and enjoys his success. I keep comparing myself to him and his friends and I feel s***. I have no career, not enough money, no boyfriend, no glamour in my life. It seems that the only good thing about me is my physical appearance. People say i'm very pretty...but I would like to be so many other things...not just a pretty face. Everytime I compare myself to others and think of their achievements i get crazy. I've never been so insecure before...I also think that i have no talents. How can you stop comparing yourself to others and being so jealous?
whichwayisup Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 i'm really jealous of him cause he's a famous actor and gets a lot of (positive) attention from the press Who cares? He ABUSED YOU! He is NOT a good person. Sure, from the outside he may look like he has it all, but inside he's a MESS and very screwed up. Why would you be jealous of that? Media attention or not, the man is horrible! Please, don't compare yourself to anyone...You are who you are and things will fall into place as they should, but the timing has to be right. You gotta work on your self confidence, and go from there. Seek some therapy and build yourself up. The people in your life, that guy and his friends, are NOT your friends. If they make you feel bad about you, then that is not true and real friendship.
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