dressing sexy ALL the time?

[Shizz]

I dunno it could be the fact that he wants to parade you and show you off to others. (Ego boosting. Jealously factor.) He could also have a low view of women, or hung around women that constantly dressed like that and now suffers from familiarity issues, etc. (sorry, I read a lot on phsycology.)

 

If it doesn't make you comfortable, then don't do it. He has no right to make you feel uncomformtable, merely so he can get an ego boost.

 

Slutty clothes in the bedroom I can understand, but usually when I see a woman out on the street in slutty clothes, I think one of two unpleasant things.

Give me a long black dress with a low cut back, and exposed shoulders, and I'll show you a man who drools.

[CATENZA]

I know that when I dress sexy and me and my hubby are out in public, it drives him nuts because he can't have me. Once we reach a private area the amazing sex comes in. It builds up his sexual appetite!!

[Trialbyfire]

A woman can look very sexy without being over-the-top trampy. I recommend that you look in the mirror and be honest with what you can carry off and what you can't. Tacky or unsuitable, is not sexy.

[che_jesse]

I've had boyfriends try that with me in the past. My solution was to buy my own cloth and not let them anywhere near the store when I went shopping. I kept it sexxy enough but not sluttly.

 

But then again I wear flip flops 99% of the time, any man I ever went out with had to accept that, I guess it put off men that would have had me dress super slutty right away.

 

You could try that I guess, not getting the hot outfits out untill date #7 or 8 I guess. It will weed out the ones that want you to look like a hooker.

[ilmw]

I've always preferred the woman I have seen to look classy..

 

You can be classy.. and sexy too....

[CATENZA]

yes, there is a big difference between SEXY and TRAMPY!

[MrsHellFire]

They are using you as a trophy to parade around. Maybe you attract the WRONG men.