sb129 Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 You should be at home dressed in a pink ribbon around your neck and piercings. WTF??? Explain please?
Walk Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 WTF??? Explain please? I think he was just making a joke about easy access, and alluding to what guys really want their women to wear in the privacy of their own home.
DanielMadr Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 WTF??? Explain please? pyjamas don't stay on for long.... Means, pyjamas are OK b/c they are off in a second....easy access. So why not to walk around only in pink ribbon around your neck and piercings (if you have any) aka naked.
DanielMadr Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 I think he was just making a joke about easy access, and alluding to what guys really want their women to wear in the privacy of their own home. Exactly. Nothing against sexy lingerie but ribbon around neck only is fine too, especially in hot summer. In this outfit you can have foreplay all day long
sb129 Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 I think he was just making a joke about easy access, and alluding to what guys really want their women to wear in the privacy of their own home. yeah I got that bit. Pink ribbons and piercings seems a little wierd... but its DMadr, so no surprise there!
kepners Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 @daniel! HAHAH bigger boobs! love it! U know what i mean when we go out on that date you keep asking me on!
Author nicki Posted May 11, 2007 Author Posted May 11, 2007 You guys are funny! Sb129, yes, it did feel like they were trying to "control" me. That's probably why I started feeling out of sorts and refused to wear any more clothing like that. And it wasn't head to toe stripper outfits. Maybe a revealing top, but paired with jeans and lower heels. So, it seemed still within the boundaries, but barely...especially when it seemed to become "required" wear. For regular wear, I much prefer tank tops and cargo pants. Or maybe a sundress. That's more me! So, guys/girls what constitutes sexy AND classy to you?
sb129 Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 So am I right in assuming you aren;t with anyone like that now? Thats good if not, you should be yourself in a R. I think less can be more- I just bought the most beautiful top, which is quite low cut in the back, but it drapes, so you can't really see that much.
Author nicki Posted May 11, 2007 Author Posted May 11, 2007 No, not with a guy like that now...but my new boyfriend does seem to put a big price on "sexy." It makes me a bit worried that here I go again. I agree, we should be ourselves in relationships, in all ways. Sometimes I think that I might be acting lazy if I don't want to "dress up" once in a while for a guy. And usually that means sexy and revealing to a lot of guys. Your new top sounds both classy and sexy! That's what I'm going to aim for when I do "dress up."
DanielMadr Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 yeah I got that bit. Pink ribbons and piercings seems a little wierd... but its DMadr, so no surprise there! Actually I wanted to write 'leather collar with spikes and piercings with little bells' instead of pink ribbon and stuff. Thats weird
DanielMadr Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 So, guys/girls what constitutes sexy AND classy to you? I dont know the terminology so I wont help you much Tight jeans or cargo pants with proper camouflage pattern is OK. Sun dress is also OK. Tennis shoes or army boots. Tshirt or some cleavage revealing thing is also OK. Certainly not: 1. silly thin shoes, pointy end shoes or weird colors shoes. High heel shoes are nice for posture but not so very nice on feet. 2. blouses, weird colors tshirts and loose things 3. skirts unless in a office or a club. Skirts are either too long or too short. Something from whitch half of an azz shows off. Hip jeans when you almost can see a mighty beaver. 4. scarfs, headscarfs of any kind
sb129 Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 No, not with a guy like that now...but my new boyfriend does seem to put a big price on "sexy." It makes me a bit worried that here I go again. I agree, we should be ourselves in relationships, in all ways. Sometimes I think that I might be acting lazy if I don't want to "dress up" once in a while for a guy. And usually that means sexy and revealing to a lot of guys. Your new top sounds both classy and sexy! That's what I'm going to aim for when I do "dress up." Oh it is so beautiful... it wasn't that cheap but worth every cent IMO. i tried to find a pic of it, but I can't. I can PM you the site if you want they do mail order. I like getting dressed up for myself, not just my BF. I don't think its lazy if you don't want to dress up once in a while. Right now I am in my running gear about to go for a run, I have been cleaning the house and I have a headband on. I do NOT look hot. But I need to run to keep my butt looking halfway decent! My BF liked the first day I went without makeup etc in front of him, cos he thought it was great I was comfortable enough around him to relax and not worry so much about my appearance. I am not talking about letting yourself go.... I just think there should be a balance! Sexy AND comfy, in equal measures
hardcase Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 Thanks, Hardcase, Riddler and Chillchic! You guys are right. It's all about an ego thing, a trophy girlfriend for public display. It's okay once in a while, but disrespectful to expect it all of the time. I like what you said, Hardcase, about only wanting that in private. thanks...thats just the way I feel about it. On the other side of the coin....you also have women(and I guess it swings somewhat this way with men too) that will dress provocatively when she goes out with friends and her man doesn't like it...which I can understand. I am not talking about when a woman wants to wear a nice outfit that shows off some curves...if you work hard on your body...you should be proud....but to an extent. (like guys who where tight wifebeater tank tops...I just have to laugh at them) Lemme ask this...when a woman wears a very low cut shirt...why does she choose this piece? To show off her cleavage....why else? And who does she want looking when not with her man?....uh...other men.(maybe other women too..LOL) And the women who defend it will say, I wear what I want and its not for other guys....or a woman might get all upset when she gets the cat calls or looks from guys. So my question is, if your tits are hanging out of your shirt....what do you expect?
DanielMadr Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 Oh it is so beautiful... it wasn't that cheap but worth every cent IMO. i tried to find a pic of it, but I can't. I can PM you the site if you want they do mail order. I like getting dressed up for myself, not just my BF. I don't think its lazy if you don't want to dress up once in a while. Right now I am in my running gear about to go for a run, I have been cleaning the house and I have a headband on. I do NOT look hot. But I need to run to keep my butt looking halfway decent! My BF liked the first day I went without makeup etc in front of him, cos he thought it was great I was comfortable enough around him to relax and not worry so much about my appearance. I am not talking about letting yourself go.... I just think there should be a balance! Sexy AND comfy, in equal measures Friend of mine almost killed his fiancee for this. They went on a trip on the river and were sleeping outdoors (tent). He woke up in the morning and his fiancee was washing by the river. When he went out of the tent and saw her he had a shock....having a gun, he would shoot her. He thought its some stranger stealing his fiancees property. That was the first time he saw her without makeup. They never married. I wonder why:o
Lizzie60 Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 is great. I think it's all about the cut, how it fits. It can be low cut and short and still be elegant and classy. 'slutty' is when the clothes is way too tight, cheap make, too bright colours (fluo), shockingly provocative. and of course... dress according your body shape. I don't like a short skirt on really fat girls...
sb129 Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 Certainly not: 1. silly thin shoes, pointy end shoes or weird colors shoes. High heel shoes are nice for posture but not so very nice on feet. 2. blouses, weird colors tshirts and loose things 3. skirts unless in a office or a club. Skirts are either too long or too short. Something from whitch half of an azz shows off. Hip jeans when you almost can see a mighty beaver. 4. scarfs, headscarfs of any kind 1. Ok, well I agree with shoes. It is SOO annoying going out with women who limp around all night in beautiful heels which are evil and painful. However, I have some slightly pointy shoes which I think are lovely. they are flat. 2. This is odd.. what is a wierd colour? Some loose things are very nice.... and you can get really funky shirts/ blouses. 3. Agree with hip jeans, and I am not much of a skirt wearer, however I do like them. If i have to go to something really dressy I wear a dress. 4. Scarfs???? Not even nice floaty ones? They can look amazing with the right outfit... Friend of mine almost killed his fiancee for this. They went on a trip on the river and were sleeping outdoors (tent). He woke up in the morning and his fiancee was washing by the river. When he went out of the tent and saw her he had a shock....having a gun, he would shoot her. He thought its some stranger stealing his fiancees property. That was the first time he saw her without makeup. They never married. I wonder why:o :lmao:I don't wear THAT much makeup! I am still recognisable (and beautiful of course) without it- I only wear it to enhance my natural beauty!
Author nicki Posted May 11, 2007 Author Posted May 11, 2007 Daniel, good list! I don't have any of those horrible hip jeans. I'm petite and they would make my legs look very short. Plus, they are way too revealing, unless you have a super long tee shirt over them. Sb129, you must have some skill with a scarf! Darn, I can never get it down. If I put a scarf on my head, I look like I just emerged from a round of chemo. If I tie it around my neck, I look like a strange country club/Coco Chanel wannabe. So, I just tie scarves around my waist like a belt, or tie one on my handbag strap for that extra "flair."
Author nicki Posted May 11, 2007 Author Posted May 11, 2007 Funny story, too, about the no make up woman! That's why it's probably a good idea to not wear too much in the first place. Less of a shock later on! Plus, less make up looks better anyway.
sb129 Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 Daniel, good list! I don't have any of those horrible hip jeans. I'm petite and they would make my legs look very short. Plus, they are way too revealing, unless you have a super long tee shirt over them. Sb129, you must have some skill with a scarf! Darn, I can never get it down. If I put a scarf on my head, I look like I just emerged from a round of chemo. If I tie it around my neck, I look like a strange country club/Coco Chanel wannabe. So, I just tie scarves around my waist like a belt, or tie one on my handbag strap for that extra "flair." I wear them as belts too. I mean like thin ethnic type silk ones etc- not horrible patterned ones....
DanielMadr Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 However, I have some slightly pointy shoes which I think are lovely. they are flat. I call them Clown shoes. Women have small feet. Thats sexy. Not a shoe where a feet looks like ski. So from estetic point of view it is fashion disaster to wear one. Burn them please and the ash throw at sea on full moon night. Thanks. I agree that less is sometimes more but no makeup is also bad. I would go easy on the lipstick. Too red lips are just weird unless you are known for chewing betel.
DanielMadr Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 @daniel! HAHAH bigger boobs! love it! U know what i mean when we go out on that date you keep asking me on! OOOps I already go on a date with your dad, wanna join or what?
sb129 Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 my shoes do not look like clown shoes they aren't THAT pointy. asking a woman to burn a pair of shoes she likes is akin to sacrilege. i agree too red lips are yucky, as is betel. Those betel stains are a beeatch to clean off teeth. in morocco, some women wet this kind of red clay and use it as lipstick, when I was there a shopkeeper gave me some as a gift. eek, who knows what chemicals it has in it! Cadmium probably. I haven;t used it. I am a clear/ pale lipgloss kind of girl.
alphamale Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 I love some of these divorced 45 yr old MILFs with boob jobs who try to dressy trampy and look like the are 20 yrs old. You'll usually find them in the bar area of a higher-class restaurant (yes the ones where the prices on the menu start at $30)
IpAncA Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 4. scarfs, headscarfs of any kind I can't figure out how to wear those damn things on my head without looking like a foreign person. It just looks plain stupid. Plus they never stay and their always moving. Headscarfs are certainly a talent I don't have.
Green Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 did he ever ask you not to where panties and a short skirt that would be kind of hot
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