Guest Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 I am attending highschool now and i am having trouble with this girl who is my friend but we are having problems now and i dont think i have a chance with her at going out with her but, i know we are friends, so to the point theres this other guy who she told me she liked and we hate each other. so i tell her stuff that he says about her to try to show her what he is really like not around her. and today he told her that i am just making it up and she believes him and im really upset now because i was telling the truth and she is good friend who i like alot and i don't wanna lose her. So how can i show her that i am being honest and care about her?
whichwayisup Posted May 13, 2007 Posted May 13, 2007 Back off abit. Bad mouthing this other guy is making you look jealous. She likes him and there's not alot you can do about that. You like her and care for her - Then support her...And, if the other guy turns out to be the a-hole you think he is, you BE there for her as a friend. Until then, try to be happy for her and don't bash the guy. I know it will be difficult for you to bite your tongue, but if you continue doing that, she'll end the friendship completely.
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