La Tristessa Durera Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 First of all, hello guys and gals. ok so the scenario is this, On saturday night I met a lass who I was very attracted to in a nightclub. There was chemistry physically, and we shared the same interests music wise for example ... led to kissing on the dancefloor and later we swapped phone numbers and she gave me her bracelet. The earliest texts were in the form of us sending lyrics of our favourite band And after this exchanged texts all sunday before and after my football...soccer.., and continued to do so all through until monday night. On the monday evening she seemed to be quite interested in what i was doing after work that evening, on my day off so I asked her to hang out on my day off, in what would essentially be a date and she said she would like to do that. I suggested a walk in the park or down the shopping. Anyway, tuesday came and went with little contact and no further arrangemnets were made. I got in touch and in the end she told me couldnt do something on my day off as she had to arrange her friends bday for the following sat, but maybe on my next day off. My response to this was "aye we will see", but i continued to have a nice conversation till late, so perhaps an attempt to be cold-ish was diluted. Anyway there has been no contact whatsoever in the last two days..I know she has an exma tomorow, but its not a problem the no contact as I have been busy...out last nite and working today. So Anyone have any ideas what may be going through her mind or what I actions I could take. I understand that almost nothing has developed here, but she would be a good catch so I was just quite interested in seeing what could be made of it. She Is very good looking so would probs have other guys in the pipeline I imagine, however I am not doing badly in terms of prospects either. Is this playing hard to get perhaps?
kepners Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 mate thats flat baked out. you gotta leave that. you have over cooked it. i think the cake has curdled. you had best leave it till shes all done. but dont contact her... because mate, if she wants you... she will come and get you...ie confirm dates etc etc... all i can say is next time you speak... msn her ass, but i think its a curdled cake. as for her being fit... i think thats in the eye of the beholder. you mustnt ever think like that about a woman... because if you do she will pick up on it. women have a sixth sense when they find a weak man (ie shes better looking than me - she has loads of guys after her) well all i can say to that, is let her have all those guys after her, shes not STUPID, all women know men want pretty much something at clubs. its like ****ting in a barrel. believe me when i say this women have 2/4 men that they could get at anyone time, even if its just a text thing etc... women have offers from blokes all the time! because us men will ask every reasonably looking bird in a club for a piece of the pie. it does not mean shes superior to you. if she dont want you, its her loss! women are not stupid far from it, they have a massive over developed sense of people/situations/body lang/relationship .... way more than we could ever know. a woman knows you fancy her before you even know it. they know how you look at her, because they ahve seen it so many times... they know that primal look a man gives a woman before he's even thought to himself wow shes hot! think about it.
Author La Tristessa Durera Posted May 10, 2007 Author Posted May 10, 2007 yeah i thought i have overcooked it. Its her move now? yeah we have been msn ing / bebo also That said im playing myself down here cause I know in my head Im at my most confident in myself than Ive ever been Spot on with the womans sense tho...its uncanny!
kepners Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 yeah you leave it next time you speak to her, you dont say "i have to go now i am busy this eveing/tomorrow/etc!" because she will instantly think -ok no contact from him 2days... so you have to leave it 4days for her to notice. you say something like "ok hun brb 2mins" then go off line and not contact her for d day, or something like that! you need to do somethign that gives her s short leadtime (with woman correction factor) so that a next day NO reply will have her wondering!! almost as if YOUVE gone on a date DO not what ever you do, do this again,NEver reply instantly to email etc, even though you want to.. she wont repect you! i have over cooked a cake last week replying every evening to her email only for her to go off the boil. i mean she was telling me how hot i was... the boom to many reply too available etc... get it?
Author La Tristessa Durera Posted May 10, 2007 Author Posted May 10, 2007 yeah i get u, sure is easy to overcook tho eh..then its an upwards struggle?! or not even worth the pursuit so...act more cold / disinterested ? btw i am a student architect in the uk..scotland.. haha! nice one
kepners Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 good lad! hahaha! you basically do not give her the attention she wants! she will want you more! because the blokes who want to **** her chase her hard!! so when u DONT you stand out. but basically this is an over cooked egg. your going to have to do as i said and not think about her, if she wants you she ill do something however small to get you talking etc like going on MSN and not starting the convo with her, girls INSTANTLY LOOK FOR THIS!!! serious
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