smith604 Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 Ok I wrote about a mth ago about how my gf played me and then after bugging me to come back moved another person from tx down in her house that she never even meat just talked to online and by phone and how she told me she still wanted to be freinds but yet i dont hear from her but 2 days ago she wrote me 8 emails about how happy she is with him and how he is so much better and how she got her a new place thats better than the one we lived in and how she tryed to be my freind but yet she never talked to me and i didnt talk to her but yet she said i blew it and she wants me out of her life but yet at the end of each email she says mabye we can be freinds idk it depends on if i change not her i have to change CHANGE WHAT i havent talk to her or seen her to blow a freindship i have been working two jobs so i dont have to think of her you know whats the point is she trying to make me feel bad when she says i happyer without you? and if so why does she say mabye we can be freinds at the end but though the whole email tells me were not im confussed help me any ideas?
annabelle75 Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 Well duh ..... you did ruin it! I mean seriously. Didn't realize that you were suppose to be calling and hounding her for the past few weeks trying to get her back and begging her to love you again. How else is she suppose to get her ego stroked. The idea that you were OK with not talking to her and moving on is just wrong. You were suppose to pine for her for the rest of your life ........... Hee hee .... sorry but I couldn't resist. She is pissed because you let her go and moved on. Its a bit of an ego crush for her. She adds the little part at the end becasue she wants to give you just enough encouragement to try and pursue some sort of relationship with her. That way she'll always have you waiting around just incase her new wonderful life with internet boy ends. I say you should keep NC. Its working for you and there is no reason to encourage her little fantasy of you still wanting to be with her. Refresh my memory, is this the girl that hooked up with some young guy that she met in an internet gaming community? If so, just the fact that she felt the need to email you shows that her new young stud isn't exactly making her dreams come true. You are so much better off without her.
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