Smartguy803 Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 I'm an senior in high school glad its almost over now let's get to the main point. There's this girl I've been liking since the eigth grade that's an long time. Mainly I'm trying to say should I tell her that I'm crazying about her or just leave her alone? Bad thing is she has a boyfriend and they are in love with each other. I'm planning on letting her know at our graduation which May 22nd. If he finds out I really don't care what he knows. I just want her to know how I feel about her and that's it. smartguy803
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Author Smartguy803 Posted May 9, 2007 Author Posted May 9, 2007 I feel like I should let her know what I really feel about her?
208PUA Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 Really kinda depends on the situation. Whats your current relationship with her. Are you friends or is this a "I've admired you from afar" kinda deal. Most likely I would say don't even worry about telling her. Shes got a bf who shes in love with and probably intends on staying with. If you don't have any kind of relationship with her now I doubt seriously if she would dump him for you. There are plenty of fish in the see my friend. Also if you do decide to tell her, don't do it at your graduation, thats kind of a special day, don't want to stir anything up on such an important day.
Kamille Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 Yea I think you missed your chance on this one. What would you telling her how you feel acheive? I doubt she will leave her boyfriend. One of the trickiest thing about romance is timing... And yet, love is all about timing. Tidbit of my story: I am currently dating a guy who says he has had a crush on me since we met 5 years ago. I was seeing someone at the time. If he had approached me with a revelation, I would have turned him down. Even though, I think it would have been obvious to me, even then, that this guy is a catch. Granted, I don't think I would have forgotten about it, but let's just say the fact that the revelations are happening now makes it all very exciting. And if he had done anything back then, I think we would have had this very complicated 'keep him on the back burner' friendship which would have not done anyone any justice. So, I say, all in good time my friend, all in good time.
Shizz Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 Yea I think you missed your chance on this one. What would you telling her how you feel acheive? I doubt she will leave her boyfriend. One of the trickiest thing about romance is timing... And yet, love is all about timing. Tidbit of my story: I am currently dating a guy who says he has had a crush on me since we met 5 years ago. I was seeing someone at the time. If he had approached me with a revelation, I would have turned him down. Even though, I think it would have been obvious to me, even then, that this guy is a catch. Granted, I don't think I would have forgotten about it, but let's just say the fact that the revelations are happening now makes it all very exciting. And if he had done anything back then, I think we would have had this very complicated 'keep him on the back burner' friendship which would have not done anyone any justice. So, I say, all in good time my friend, all in good time. Yeah I felt the dissapointing sting before of being attached to someone who was attached and not looking. Its hard because I really did love her too. But what can one do, but wait?
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