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Ok guys, I'm new to the forum and I need advice. I was with my girlfriend for 11 month and then 2 weeks ago, she said sh wanted to go on a break because we were arguing a litle too much and she says she thought I was not happy but I told her I was. Anyway she wanted the break and I didn't take it to well and I want her back cause I love her I never been on a break. What does this mean and what should I do? She told me she also needed space and that she is going to be with me but everyday is like she pulls away a little bit more. Advice please.

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I'm really sorry to tell you this but it sounds like she's breaking up with you. There's not much you can do about it but maybe come here for support. Don't beg her or cry. You'll only push her away even more.

 

And don't contact her either. Wait and see what she does.

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Starting this morning I stop talking to her and cut her off. I just don't know what else to do. She told me she loves me before I cut her off and I love this girl too. I just want to go about this in the best way possible, I want her back and don't want to lose her. I know its a break up but she said it would only be for a while to put our relationship on hold.

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Well, you're doing all the right things. I know it's really hard though but all you can do now is just see what happens with her. The ball is in her court now.

 

In the meantime, don't wait by the phone or anything. Get out and do things and again, come here for support.

 

Hang in there, ok? You'll be ok. We've all gone through this.

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Thanks for the support. I have been going to the gym everyday for long hours. Yea it really does hurt because I realy don't want to lose her. We have been through so much and trust me its not little things, that have been mostly with me and she has helped me through my problems. Its stupid but she made me into a better person because I was realy really wild before I got with her. She is a important person to me but only time will tell what will happen. Anything more I should do?? What if I bump into her at school or something.

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Did I mention she is the type of girl who won't come back kocking on my door wanting me back, she is the type of girl that I would have to like go back to her, I don't know if that makes sense, its wierd.

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Thanks for the support. I have been going to the gym everyday for long hours. Yea it really does hurt because I realy don't want to lose her. We have been through so much and trust me its not little things, that have been mostly with me and she has helped me through my problems. Its stupid but she made me into a better person because I was realy really wild before I got with her. She is a important person to me but only time will tell what will happen. Anything more I should do?? What if I bump into her at school or something.

 

You're welcome. Glad to lend my support. I know how tough this can be.

 

If you run into her, just be real cool. Be really casual and friendly but not overly so. She'll see that you've moved on (even if you really haven't yet).

 

It's great that you're going to the gym and not sitting home crying.

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Well guys today I had class with her and as much as I tried to ignore her, she sat next to me and grabbed on my arm. While we was sitting and I was ignoring her she told me she missed me and me acting like I didn't hear calmly replied what? And she said nothing. So I left and played handball. What does that mean.

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