208PUA Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 Hey all, I've been single (by choice) for quite a while now, but finally my desire to have a girlfriend again has returned lol. Sadly prospects at school have been pretty much nill. However, an old flame has recently come back into the picture. Some back story, I'm 21, me and her dated briefly in high school. I was kinda childish and I dumped her after a week cause she was always so nervous (I know now that I didn't give her enough time, etc) Well after hanging out with her again I'm really kicking myself for having dumped her in the first place. First off shes really cute, secondly shes a total nerd like myself. Loves Star Wars, Video games, likes all the nerdy stuff I like that most girls don't. We still click like we used to, and we still do all the flirty things we used to (i.e hugging all the time, and playing little touchy games and stuff). I kept hearing from friends months to a year after I called it off that she still liked me, so I apparently made some kind of impression. I'm usually good at this kinda stuff but I've been outta the game for so long I dont want to mess up lol. Any thoughts/comments/advice? Also on a second note I've got a situation with another ex who's now married. Things were kinda bitter after the breakup for a while, but things were patched up and we became friends again. Well lately shes been acting kinda weird. For example I made a complaint about how I needed to go to the gym and she was all like "Why you need the gym, you look fine, I would totally **** you." Even made little jokes about me coming to her place on her lunch break to fool around. And all of a sudden she wants to hang out and stuff when we hadnt hung out in a few months. My friends sound like shes having second thoughts about her married. And I certainly dont want to get in the middle of a marriage. I'm I just imagining all this, or is it something I need to confront her about?
zilverenvlinder Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 I would NOT get involved with your married ex. That's some serious drama you do not need to deal with right now. I suggest you start hanging out with your "cute nerdy" girl, and see where it goes. She might give you a chance at happiness! Please, please forget about the married chick.
Author 208PUA Posted May 9, 2007 Author Posted May 9, 2007 LOL. Sorry I didn't mean to suggest I was gonna try and get with the married ex, I just wanted another persons opinion that I wasn't just imagining all that. The cute nerdy girl is definitly on my radar. But its really weird cause my feelings for her are going through the roof!! I'm usually very chilled and calm when it comes to girls that I dig, but right now I feel very chaotic about the whole thing and I'm trying to get a check on my emotions. It's really annoying actually, I'm even having to call up my buddies to do stuff all the time cause if I don't keep myself occupied all I can do is think about her!! And I know if I don't chill then I'm gonna do something stupid and screw the whole thing up.
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