I think this is every single post here, but

[Michael Waldon]

if you loved her, what the hell do you do then? How do you deal with the fact that you loved her? Were you wrong?

 

I guess I just can't get past the anger stage of it. I'm mad at myself, and I'm mad at "love" in general. Love certainly did me a service, considering she doesn't feel the same way.

 

I guess what I'm asking is, how do you get over the cynicism and anger? The fact that love, for all its supposed virtues, really let you down?

 

/venting

[lonelybird]

I think many people define *love* in a wrong way.

 

Real love is uplifting and giving, not anger or put you down

 

but self-seeking love (selfish love) bring frustration, when other cannot meet our expectation, we begin to hate them, because they hurt our ego

[darkspace]

I know how you feel, but i dont think anger is the way, with anger you never truly get over it, I think everybody has to cope in their own way...but one day you will find better love, keep hope in love :-)