Toni_no12002 Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 Well just recently me and my bf have split up after 3 years.Im moving out in about a month,with my little boy.Im angry at him because one of he main reasons we split is because he didnt make any effort at all to make the relationship work.Numerous times i asked him to go out with me as a couple but he said we didnt have the money!Yet now hes spending quite alot of money txting a lass and making effort to go places and meet her.I feel upset that i wasnt worth that effort. Ive been going out quite alot recently as ive been abit upset.I go out with a female friend to my local and then to a club in town.I dont see a problem with this.Just latley though alot of gossip has been flying around.Someone has told a friend of mine that ive gone nutty and im all over blokes!Which is untrue.I admit i talk to men but im a friendly person and will talk to anyone.Im not just going to be rude and not talk to someone. Also quite a few men have been txting me to meet them for sex.Whereas i like the attention ill have to admit!I feel really down because everyone seems to think im a tart.All i want if for someone to care.Everyone keeps gossiping that ive lost the plot and there always watching my every move.I swear there waiting for me to crack!I have slept with one guy who ive known for a year at my local.He doesnt want a relationship and to me thats fair enough because i dont think i want to jump into anything at the moment anyway. Im just sick of the gossip!Im not a tart!I dont understand why everyone is so interested in my life all of a sudden.I feel like no one actually cares about me.Everyone says they do but they dont show it.I keep crying about everything,i just feel so down.How can i stop feeling like this and get everyone to stop all the gossip?
str_Ay Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 no offense but if ppl are gossping about u, im sure theyre not even ur friends. and if theyre not ur friends, then why do u even care what they have to say? gossip is a stupid kiddish thing that no one should pay mind too. if they only have time to talk bout u, then apparently theyre the ones with no lives at all. a lot of my friends and i talk **** all the time and then we forget bout it the next day. why? cus it doesnt control our lives to consistently think bout it.but anyways, u have every right to date or see whoever u please. ur bf didnt make any effort and thats not ur fault. he wanted something diff, well now here's ur chance as well. ignore the stupid antics and go out and do what makes u feel better ^_^
Lizzie60 Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 why do you care about the gossip? Life is too short... you do what YOU want to do and never mind the others! If I would care about the gossip I would go crazy... I live alone in a very nice and quiet neighborhood... I'm sure the neighbours see men coming and going all the time... Do I care about the gossip? NO If they have time to watch what others are doing, fine ... I don't and I don't really care.
Shizz Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 Ha, according to gossip I'm sleeping with the girl I'm currently dating, kinda difficult considering I'm a virgin. Don't pay any heed to it sweetie, people are unfortunately very malicious creatures, and for some reason enjoy hurting each other. Pay it no mind, and just be yourself. If they can't handle that its there problem, not yours.
jcster Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 Sadly, when women break up with a man, they tend to take the brunt of the gossip. It's natural - it's not fair - and please don't listen to it. It will all calm down in a few months. Until then, keep your chin up and ignore the idiots.
Pink Amulet Posted May 18, 2007 Posted May 18, 2007 Might I just add- don't be flattered by people messaging you asking for sex... it isn't a compliment
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